Is boyfriend perverted?

[KirstyM]

Its not that guys look at kids sexually, I think it's more a case of if a 12 year old is very attractive, you might notice (which doesnt mean theyre attracted to her, just aware of how pretty she is, or whatver) but to go any further, like the guy this thread is about, is waaaaaay over the line

[lisa85]

12 year old girls are kids, kids are cute, not attractive.. That's my opinion.. A 15-16 year old girl could be attractive, but not 12.. yuck

[KirstyM]

What about early developers? What about kids who look much older than they are? Ever seen the film Thirteen, as an example. The girls in that were only 13 (obv) but they looked nearer 18. I'm not saying its right to be attracted to kids - I'm just pointing out that if you think a 15-16 year old can be found to be attractive, there are a hell of a lot of 12-13 year olds walking around looking years older than they are.

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Originally Posted by lisa85

Indigosoul: Do you seriously think that every healthy man look at 12-year old girls in a sexual way?! Cause she's talking about girls between 12 and 16.
Maybe I'm naive to believe that every straight guy doesn't look at 12-year old girls (sexually), but if this is true I wanna be lesbian

As KM said, it depends on the 12-year old. But I do think its natural to look. In fact I think many people harbour what others would call 'perversions' if they were to express them. Point is, most don't. This is the issue. The question was: "is boyfriend perverted?"


YES!!

[KirstyM]

The fact that she even needed to ask is worrying me...

[Frasbee]

I remember the days I used to think 12 year olds were hot...

[confusedsoul]

I wont think bout a 12yr old or for that matter 16 yr girl in sexual way.. that is because thats the age when they are like kids, behave like kids; like ur own lil bro, sisters. And just randomly picking any 12 yr old and masturbate thinking bout her is real perverted..

But just for the sake of argument.. if a 14 yr old girl, who looks well beyond her age, just comes to me and flirts like crazy (well if they have it they know how to use it). would it be sicko if I go home and masturbate to her image????
I dont think so....

[jasmeen20]

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Originally Posted by KirstyM

The fact that she even needed to ask is worrying me...

The reason I ask is just to get others opinions. I already know my EX boyfriend is a pervert. I just want to know if other guys feel the same way? If so, then I am definately going lesbian. From some of the responses from men, boys, I don't know how old you are, I am worried. I think most would agree that 12 is waaayy too young, but if guys are thinking 13 and up is okay, then I see know reason why I would want to get married or have kids. For what, so they can be checking out my daughters or friends daughters?? I don't think so!! Don't men have any integrity anymore? I mean heck, there are cute 13 year old boys, it doesn't mean I masturbate to them, or even think of them in any way. I realize my age and what is appropriate. I guess there are a lot of pathetic guys in this world. GROSS

[Innova]

Your getting the wrong impression, cause thats discusting. Most guys don't do that crap, at least that I know of.

[lisa85]

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Originally Posted by confusedsoul

I wont think bout a 12yr old or for that matter 16 yr girl in sexual way.. that is because thats the age when they are like kids, behave like kids; like ur own lil bro, sisters. And just randomly picking any 12 yr old and masturbate thinking bout her is real perverted..

But just for the sake of argument.. if a 14 yr old girl, who looks well beyond her age, just comes to me and flirts like crazy (well if they have it they know how to use it). would it be sicko if I go home and masturbate to her image????
I dont think so....

Well honestly, that depends on how old you are confusedsoul.. If you are over 18-20 I think that it's disgusting.. I agree with jasmeen20, is there any real men left out there? Some that sees that it's very wrong when a 14 year old girl hit on them, and DON'T get turned on by that (as long as they're not around 14 themselves)..

[confusedsoul]

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Originally Posted by lisa85

Well honestly, that depends on how old you are confusedsoul.. If you are over 18-20 I think that it's disgusting.. I agree with jasmeen20, is there any real men left out there? Some that sees that it's very wrong when a 14 year old girl hit on them, and DON'T get turned on by that (as long as they're not around 14 themselves)..

well I should have made myself clear.. that was something which really happened when I was like 19-20.. thats a tricky age, u think u are old enough atleast than 13-14 yr old kids, but still not entirely out of that teenage thing..I remember thats when some friend of my sis, she hit on me when we were on picnic.. At that time I did fantasize bout her... Since I had experienced it I just wrote it..

Well I know it wont happen now (maybe then I allowed her to flirt with me, today I would just kick her ass!)..

[hoouwan]

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Twelve year olds? Those are children . That makes him a pedophile.

i'm suprised it took that long for this exact sentence to be said.

[JMark]

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Originally Posted by jasmeen20

I just want to know if other guys feel the same way? If so, then I am definately going lesbian.

Minorities will always ruin things for others.
No need to go lesbian.
Most men aren't mentally sick.
Don't loose hope that fast!

[shh!]

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Originally Posted by jasmeen20

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years (he is almost 41 and I am 29). We have gone to nudist places before as a non-sexual activity, just to relax and we know families from these resorts. Recently, I found under the bed a folder of pictures of very young girls about 12-16. Some were teens from the family we know that were taken on our trips. I have found him very often masturbating to the photos. He doesn't know I know about it. I feel disgusted like I am dating some pervert. He has mentioned to me that all men masturbate to girls this age. Am I out of line by being opposed to this?

(Oh, god, I am feeling sick.) I am surprised no one has mentioned that nude pictures of young girls is considered child pornography, a criminal offense. I think you oughta report this guy to the local authorities and never look back, and if you tolerate him behaving in this manner or choose to look the other way, you are basically saying it is acceptable. I honestly can't imagine why you have continued with him thus far. It is really shocking.

[shh!]

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

if there's grass on the field...

SMACK!

Enough said.