anal, do women really like it?

[theman2004]

me and my girlfriend have been talkin about trying out anal sex lately and we'll get a chance to try next friday. she thinks its gonna hurt but i told her that i hear as long as you can relax it can be very pleasurable. she also thinks it will leave her loose. can yall give me a straight answer. i need all the tips i can get. what kinda lube to use, etc..? how many women really like it? can women orgasm from anal? thank you

[BlackRose]

Ok. Here's the deal. Get yourself some good lube. Since it is her first time, you are going to have to ease her into it. This means using your fingers first. Start with one then go to two after a little while. Try three if you can. Most likey, if she is relaxed and you wait long enough, three will fit just fine. I reapeat though... USE LOTS OF LUBE!! After you ease her into it, switch over to your penis. Enter her slooooowly. Start off with slow movements inside of her. Don't break communication with her at all during all of this. Ask her how it feels. Make sure she is really enjoying it and not just doing it to make you happy. And yes, it is possible to orgasm from anal if you hit things just right. The wall that lies between the vagina and the anus is very thin so she will feel stimulation in her vagina while you are in her ass. I suggest you take her in an all fours position. Let her rest her upper body on a pillow if she wants so she is relaxed. As for the type of lube you two should use, it doesn't really matter. If you plan to use a condom, then a water based lube is important so you do not wear down the condom. KY or Astroglide are two very suitable choices. As for leaving her loose back there, it wont happen after the first time. She's been watching too much porn. The anus will only become "loose" if she starts shoving things that are too big in there. As long as you are an average sized guy in the penis department, she has nothing to worry about. If you follow the above steps, everything should return to normal a little bit after you pull out. I knw this was all pretty graphic, but I hope it helps you out. Let me know if you have any more questions or concerns. I will be glad to help you out. PM me if it's a personal issue. I don't mind answering there either. Good luck with your anal!

[longtime]

Can't say if all women like it, but my SO and I have done a little bit so far. Just with fingers so far. He tried once with his penis but it hurt, and haven't tried again. Since it hurt I'd said no to trying again, although it feels really good with fingers, and taking it slow I'm sure we'll try again at some point in the future. Definitely let her set the pace though!

[abovethisall911]

I was gonna try this as well,wasn't entirely sure how to go about it but as far as I know,treat her like u were having regular sex with a virgin.Just be gentle,get loads of lube and communicate.

[theman]

one question. When someone puts the finger inside her are we going to get are fingers really dirty? I don't the smell, as long as it doesn't get covered with crap.

[BlackRose]

Is she a clean girl? If she is, then it shouldn't be a problem. If you are concerned about that, maybe take a shower with her prior to having anal sex. Wash her up really good and make it a playful thing. Tease her ass a bit and make it look like you are just playing when you are really just cleaning her up. It really shouldn't be too big of a deal though. If the shower thing seems like it will take too long, just suggest she cleans up a bit before hand. Honestly though, since this is a planned thing, I almost guarentee you that she will clean herself up before seeing you. Women are crazy about their appearance and what their guy thinks of them so I don't see this as being a problem.

[longtime]

It shouldn't be messy. As was said if she's a clean girl it shouldn't be a big deal as long as she doesn't need to make a bowel movement!

[theman2004]

thanx a lot for your help i really appreciate it, keep the tips comin.

[stardust]

You wanted to know whether women like it. I guess some do and some dont. I HATE the thought!! but if she has already discussed it with you then she's obviously in favour of trying it! Evryones given you tips so you know what you need to. try it once and if she hates it then dont go there again! at least youl be able to have a laugh at the experience! who knows? it could quite possibly be one of the most pleasurable things you have ever experienced!!

[BlackRose]

Don't just give it one try. It's going to be pretty uncomfortable the first few times but if she enjoys the finger part of it, then don't give up. Just try it every once in a while until her body adjusts to it and it becomes a pleasurable thing for her. If she really hates it though, then don't push the issue. 'Nuff said.

[jolovessim]

i dont think they can orgasm from it, i dunno, i never have. weve done it a few times, teh 1st time it was weird and uncomfortable, it gets better after that but for me, i dont think it will ever be 'nice'. i dont mind it now though. what do you all think about finding the guys g-stop in his prostate? im having trouble getting it stimulated and pleasuring him at the same time, its liek a pat you head rub your belly type thing lol

[Snipaa]

How do you make the "wanting to go poop" feeling go away. Me and my girlfriend tried it once and that was her biggest complaint which grossed her out, so we stopped

[blue]

well, just go to the bathroom before hand take a shower and all that good stuff Never DO IT when you think u may have the runs

[Snipaa]

Quote:

Originally Posted by blue

well, just go to the bathroom before hand take a shower and all that good stuff Never DO IT when you think u may have the runs

That's the thing, she didn't need to go, but she got the feeling that she did when I was in her. Plus I think I would have felt something if she did

[MattPIMF]

From what I have heard (never tried it)

1 - Eros is a very good lube
2 - Definitely shower, and possibly using an enema a few hours before