Originally Posted by jaslovesant
Consider a second time

As a guy, that's my choice! As a newlywed, my wife learned to give me an orgasm early in the lovemaking with her mouth or hands, to "take the edge off". Then we had plenty of time for lots of foreplay, and she could come several times even after insertion. I had to train myself to co-operate - in fact, the quicker I climaxed the better it was for both of us. (And she thought it was cute, in a sexy way, to watch me squirm and contract before she was too personally involved in the procedings to fully appreciate how I looked.)