What men are thinking when making the move? - Love Forum

artyemi · #1 (**permalink**) 03-05-05, 10:59 PM

After quite an amusing weekend, I am just soooooo curious about the inner working of men's brains/body as they are making the move for casual sex.

Do you guys just want to have sex and not care with anybody? Are there girls that you look at and think, I want to have sex with her and nothing more? What do you look at? What do you look for? Is there something that the girl does that seem to encourage the idea that she wants sex?

Or do you just decided to make the move with any girl and hope that you get lucky?

Snipaa · #2 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 12:01 AM

Sacrifice back yard animals for luck and make move.....lol

artyemi · #3 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 12:13 AM

sacrifice yard animal. haha.. so it's not the girl sending out the signal, right? just the hormones on the men's part?

i'm just so frustrated and sooooo offended.

hotfudgemoney · #4 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 03:23 AM

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Are there girls that you look at and think, I want to have sex with her and nothing more?

Yes...

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artyemi · #5 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 03:36 AM

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Originally Posted by hotfudgemoney

Yes...

But what is it about that girl that prompts that reaction? Or is it all you?

Illusional · #6 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 07:13 AM

overall, it varies from guy to guy. some men don't really care who they have sex with, as long as they get some p*ssy. other men are looking for something more long term and they only want to be with one partner.

raverboy

Frasbee · #7 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 10:15 AM

Wait arty...are you a chick?!

hotfudgemoney · #8 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by artyemi

But what is it about that girl that prompts that reaction? Or is it all you?

Someone that is hot.

artyemi · #9 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 10:03 PM

http://imageevent.com/sasapia/artyemi

Fras- I am a girl. haha..

misombra · #10 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by hotfudgemoney

Someone that is hot.

and you're a hot one sophiiiiiiiiii.

artyemi · #11 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by misombra

and you're a hot one sophiiiiiiiiii.

thanks sombra.

unfortunately, i think it's the camera.

i don't get it though. SO guys see girls they think are hot and they want to have sex with them? they don't think, oh man, I wonder what it's like if we date or something along that line?

or, I wonder what she's like as a drinking buddy...

KirstyM · #12 (**permalink**) 04-05-05, 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by artyemi

i don't get it though. SO guys see girls they think are hot and they want to have sex with them? they don't think, oh man, I wonder what it's like if we date or something along that line?

Well that's the stereotype. Guys see someone hot (or someone not so hot if theyre desperate) and just want to f.uck ... I think that's usually the case if it's in a club or a bar. It would be unfair and unrealistic to assume all guys are like that all of the time.

artyemi · #13 (**permalink**) 05-05-05, 12:01 AM

K- it is unfair to stereotype all guys as being like that.

Unfortunately, I've seem to only meet guys who are like that, and it just makes me wonder what they are thinking when they are making that move.

It so totally pisses me off that there's this guy I offered a ride to. I thought he was nice to offer me a ride last time and I rejected.
I met him through a really good friend. Anyways, when I dropped him off at his place, he leaned over, tried to kiss me. I stopped him. He still tried to touch my breast. I stopped him.
Then he said "you're lucky you have short hair. If you had long hair, I would have pulled it back and smashed your face against something, then drag you to my room."
My response: Please consider it a warning that I have pepper spray in the car.

The next day, he gave a ride to this friend whom I met him through, and nothing happened.

SO it leaves me wondering whether I had done something to encourage his behavior the night before.
Is it because I offered him a ride? Did he take my friendliness the wrong way?

nomas · #14 (**permalink**) 05-05-05, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by misombra

and you're a hot one sophiiiiiiiiii.

What?? You've already seen a picture of Sophie? What's going on here, Soph? How did Sombra beat me? I see how it is..I see where your loyalties lie. Oh, well, at least I'll see you in person first and Sombra may NEVER see you, seeing as though she won't make a 280 mile drive when you'll be so close!

So in any case, to kinda answer your question: If I see a good looking girl, I usually try to see more into the person. I'm not one for casual sex. But probably most guys are. If they see a great looking girl, if they see the opportunity to get them in bed the first night, they will take advatage of this. However, if they succeed, most guys loose interest in the girl because she's so "easy". Me?, I LIKE the liberal girls. Even if I don't do it that way, the girl will interest me.

I love those free-spirited girls...maybe because one still is majority owner of my little heart...

Frasbee · #15 (**permalink**) 05-05-05, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by artyemi

Fras- I am a girl. haha..

??

Since when?

Why do I always miss this stuff?