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ALovelyLady86 · #16 (**permalink**) 09-05-05, 07:24 AM

Mmmmmm...

Ok I'm getting chills... I wish he was back in town

Hes visiting family for mommys day in Connecticut... me miss him. But like I said either way we arent at the sex thing yet hehehe

Apache · #17 (**permalink**) 09-05-05, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86

Mmmmmm...

Ok I'm getting chills... I wish he was back in town

Hes visiting family for mommys day in Connecticut... me miss him. But like I said either way we arent at the sex thing yet hehehe

Well don't forget where you learned these things...

Hmmm...dare I mention what we've done in a chair ..... hehe.

Only-virgins · #18 (**permalink**) 10-05-05, 07:09 AM

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Originally Posted by tooxshort

the feeling is totally different when you have the girl sweatin' right in front of you! the visuals and the sense of touch make a HUGE difference from Palmela Handerson!

the physical feeling is the same. The emotional might be different.

RedAngl19 · #19 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 06:29 AM

I have to agree with Only-virgins, and am glad you understand tooxshort.
Case in point, my life. I want sex more than my b/f. Before we couldn't have sex that often because he was living with his Dad. Atleast that's what I thought. Now we live together, and we have sex maybe 3 times a month. Not form my lack of trying though. I would always tease him throughout the day. A deep passionate kiss, a touch here, a grope there. You know... let him know what was to come. Then night would come and... nothing.

It gets tough. I'm not a nympho, but I like sex. What can I say! IT FEELS GOOD!!

I don't know what to do anymore. I'm constantly sexually frustrated. Any ideas guys?

Apache · #20 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by RedAngl19

I have to agree with Only-virgins, and am glad you understand tooxshort.
Case in point, my life. I want sex more than my b/f. Before we couldn't have sex that often because he was living with his Dad. Atleast that's what I thought. Now we live together, and we have sex maybe 3 times a month. Not form my lack of trying though. I would always tease him throughout the day. A deep passionate kiss, a touch here, a grope there. You know... let him know what was to come. Then night would come and... nothing.

It gets tough. I'm not a nympho, but I like sex. What can I say! IT FEELS GOOD!!

I don't know what to do anymore. I'm constantly sexually frustrated. Any ideas guys?

Geeze....I could handle 3 times a day...lol. And I am a nympho..(male form).
Hmm...maybe stop the attention. See what happens. Maybe he needs the illusion of being the conqueror? Maybe watch some pornos together?

jaslovesant · #21 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 08:03 PM

Oh me and boyfriend have done it bath, chairs, shower, kitchen counter, dining room tble, sofa, bed(obvious), garden, all the floors, a concrete floor (that hurt),train toilet, field, park, behind a clinic, watched pornos 2geva done all the positions...but still, HE NEVER BOTHERS ANYMORE...i have to be the one trying it on, I swear I'm gonna get some toys...yeah, any suggestions on toys? discrete ones?

Snipaa · #22 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 10:58 PM

Just stop trying, and showing affection and he'll come around.

RedAngl19 · #23 (**permalink**) 14-05-05, 08:51 AM

Thanks guys, but I've tried that too. Boy did that backfire! He started thinking I was getting it somewhere else. That didn't work.

Trust me apache, I also tried the porn thing. I rather enjoy watching porn with the guy I'm with. But the day I mentioned it to him, he freaked out. He looked almost disgusted. He said that watching porn is something private and would feel uncomfortable. Can you say LAME!

Jaslovesant, I envy you. I wish my guy was as sexually driven and creative as yours. We do different things (somewhat), but I just don't get it enough.

Sometimes I wish I could do it myself, but I've never been in to that, not by myself anyway. With my guy, yes... alone, no.

Oh, well.

Apache · #24 (**permalink**) 16-05-05, 07:11 AM

Wow....that is very lame. Porn is great shared as a couple.

Sometimes when I am at work I will email her some naughty
pictures...to let her know what I have on my mind, adding little
comments about how I will do this to you ...etc. When I see her
later shes so turned on

The understanding we have is that
we see porn for what it is. It's naughty...something we both enjoy
sharing together.

Maybe your BF feels threatened by porn, rather having you see it,
and thats a shame.

Apache · #25 (**permalink**) 16-05-05, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by jaslovesant

Oh me and boyfriend have done it bath, chairs, shower, kitchen counter, dining room tble, sofa, bed(obvious), garden, all the floors, a concrete floor (that hurt),train toilet, field, park, behind a clinic, watched pornos 2geva done all the positions...but still, HE NEVER BOTHERS ANYMORE...i have to be the one trying it on, I swear I'm gonna get some toys...yeah, any suggestions on toys? discrete ones?

Hmmm some cool places. I have this craving to try it in a church...yes I am a bad boy

jaslovesant · #26 (**permalink**) 16-05-05, 08:08 PM

ooooooh a church!!! tell if you do, and tell me what its like!!

girlygirl2005 · #27 (**permalink**) 18-05-05, 03:49 AM

I've only been with my boyfriend for a month but we are at it every day, morning and night when I stay over with him and sometimes through the day. With my ex who I was with for a year and a half the frequency never decreased at all. I was sexually satisfied. But I realised sex means nothing at all when they guy you are with is a complete loser....lol. I think it could be to do with fact that she is bored, or it could even have something to do with her diet or time of the month. It could also be that she is scared to tell you when she's feeling up to it, so you miss the opportunity alltogether. Explain to her that you would like to feel more intimate with her. Tell her you miss the closeness and then give her something to remind her of what it was like before...

Commendable · #28 (**permalink**) 18-05-05, 08:45 AM

Heck, me and my bf have never had it more than three times in a week. And we've only ben together for three months. lately it's been once a week. If I had my way we'd be doing it every day.

I thought all guys were horny all the time?

granted we both live at home, but there's plenty of times when we've had oppurtunities to be alone and he invites one of his friends over instead. Grr! Drives me nuts. I have to spell it out for him.

RedAngl19 · #29 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 02:51 AM

I am proud, and very pleased

, to announce that he has crossed over to the dark side with me. The other night, we watched porn together, and it was awesome!!!

Here's what happened... we had some friends over and we were having a few drinks. More than a few for me. Anyway, our friends have always been very open with their sexuality, as in can talk about it very easily (oh, and I think they want to get us to swing). So, needless to say I was a bit lit and I put him on the spot. I mentioned to them how he freaked out the first time I brought up the idea of watching porn together. He didn't say anything, but I could tell he felt awkward (naturally) when my friend said there's nothing wrong with it as long as you view it simply as "entertainment" for both of us. So, once they left he says to me... "hey, baby, you want to order some porn?" I just gawked at him, stunned, and asked him if he was sure. He said yes and I sobered up quick, he-he. I won't go into details, but it ****ing rocked!

Anywho.. I've done it in a church parking lot. Does that count?

keegho · #30 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 08:09 AM

Hey Guys we are talking all about sex sex sex....i know its sextalk..but maybe your girlfriend here needs something else tbot1977. U have to check that ask her love her give her love not ur pleasures. Try to understand her. Maybe she needs to feel something else than sex. Life is not all sex...if u just f**k all day u are like living in a shoe box all closed and u dont even see the world. Try to see the world with another vison try to change and travel see the world work, love, fear, hate, cry, laugh, have fun together dont waste ur time in sex all day. Try doing something productive,There are many things to experience in life other than sex. LIVE LIFE DONT KILL IT WITH YOUR PLEASURES.