I Can't Come!!!!!!!! :(((((( - Love Forum

#1 (**permalink**) 26-06-05, 09:10 AM

Okay well read the thread title.

It doesn't matter how long she's going down on me, the only way I can come is if I finish it off by jacking it. No.. she doesn't just "sit" there waiting, but it requires me multi-tasking, which makes me cum even longer.

I'm glad I'm not a premature ejaculator, but this is ridiculous! By the way, she's not the only one i've had this problem with, nobody can make me come other than me.

Oh, by the way, to the people that read my other thread about the phone sex and wondering if she'd come quicker: she came in about 5 minutes. I used one finger, didn't even do anything to the clit, just the G-Spot, and her juices squirted and I felt a tight pinch on my finger.. but that was just the first time

And what do you all suggest I do?

misombra · #2 (**permalink**) 26-06-05, 09:33 AM

find a girl that knows how to give a blow job. where's lovelylady?

#3 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 01:40 AM

okay she knows how to give head, trust me.

was that your advice? how helpful......??

whaywardj · #4 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 02:08 AM

LTS -- Offhand, I'd say you might have intimacy or control issues. Unable or refusing to "release" anything of yourself to anyone else. On another hand, could be a matter of simple propriety. Maybe you aren't keen on ejaculating in her mouth. You ever tried plain ole vanilla ****ing?

blue · #5 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 02:24 AM

i dont think that lt is having sex just yet. just oral and hand jobs i think.

Frasbee · #6 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by misombra

find a girl that knows how to give a blow job. where's lovelylady?

Yeah whatever happened to her?

I enjoyed buttin' heads with 'er.

#7 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 12:26 PM

I did ejaculate in her mouth when I finally ejaculated. blue, isn't oral considered "sex?"

No, we're not having sexual intercourse -.-

misombra · #8 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 12:31 PM

oh gawd i'm soooo sick of that question.

whaywardj · #9 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 12:33 PM

I believe Blue was speaking loosely, LT.

shh! · #10 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by misombra

oh gawd i'm soooo sick of that question.

haha - Well, I can see those Abstinence Only, Just Say No sex education classes are really working, Mr. President!

artyemi · #11 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 10:32 PM

i think you're jacking off too much. your "little man" is so used to your hand that mouth and stuff isn't going to work. what you need to do is jerk off less.

#12 (**permalink**) 27-06-05, 11:14 PM

DING DING DING!!! WE HAVE A WINNER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

artyemi was the first to post some REAL advice! btw, thanks man. i'll do that.

Perd · #13 (**permalink**) 30-06-05, 10:35 AM

I too have a similar issue. I have a really hard time finishing from head. Lately I have not been able to finish at all on some occasions. I think it is a lot to do with what is going through my mind at the time though. While my GF is giving me head all I can think about is wanting to be actually having sex with her, no matter how awesome the head is. I think the problems as of late is me getting so turned on from her orgasming that I just want her to have one after another....Not sure if any of that really makes sense though.

Cybog · #14 (**permalink**) 30-06-05, 12:39 PM

How many times have you recieved oral previously? And I don't mean your cyber-ubar pimp personality, I mean the real you.

Sometimes when recieving oral or any other form of sexual interactions with a new person or someone new for the first time or so it is difficult to "get the pipes working". It's how most humans are hardwired. It's called being "gun-shy" or nervious. You are young and inexperienced. If you were blasting her throat the first time like a porn star I would say there was something wrong.

There's nothing unusual about this.

I promise - the more often you let her slobber on your gnob the easier it will get for you to shoot a load into her ear.

RoxyFoxy · #15 (**permalink**) 18-08-05, 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Cybog

How many times have you recieved oral previously? And I don't mean your cyber-ubar pimp personality, I mean the real you.

Sometimes when recieving oral or any other form of sexual interactions with a new person or someone new for the first time or so it is difficult to "get the pipes working". It's how most humans are hardwired. It's called being "gun-shy" or nervious. You are young and inexperienced. If you were blasting her throat the first time like a porn star I would say there was something wrong.

There's nothing unusual about this.

I promise - the more often you let her slobber on your gnob the easier it will get for you to shoot a load into her ear.

Great point there Cybog. I need to ask all the guys a question here. I have a friend of mine who said that her man can go on forever. Yes I know, but you have to here this. She says that he is great, and that he really enjoys it, but he can't finish "not even once", every time they have had sex. Now, suppose that she is being honest about it, which I seriously doubt unless the man has no testicles; how would you guys feel?

I told her that if there is nothing in it for him, he's just going to stop having sex. She became very upset and stopped talking to me. But I just want a guy's opinion on this. If you would have sex with someone, and could not cum, would you have sex with them again? And again? And again? Could you honestly say that you've enjoyed sex? As a woman it's different, I do enjoy sex even when i'm not having an orgasm. But I know it's different for men. Let me know what you think boys.