fingering advice - Love Forum

stumpyTHEavnger · #1 (**permalink**) 24-08-03, 09:40 AM

alright I'm 15 and so is my girlfriend, she was over at my house and started making out and went down her pants(first time doing it) and she didnt respong really at all and I asked her if she got anything out of it
just need some tips I think I know what I'm doing wrong but just want your thoughts

desklite33 · #2 (**permalink**) 24-08-03, 11:01 PM

Wow, ur fifteen and already your this close? I cant even get a kiss from a girl and im in high school too. How did you do it? As for fingering, try looking for a clitoris which is this tiny penis kinda thing, but dont stimulate until after some foreplay.

leight69 · #3 (**permalink**) 24-08-03, 11:17 PM

My advice...ladies correct me if I'm wrong...

Just explore down there, touch her, feel her, follow what she says/does...etc.

Don't be conserned with brining her to orgasm, explore your terrain, once its "mapped out" , you'll know what to do.

stumpyTHEavnger · #4 (**permalink**) 25-08-03, 12:06 AM

thanks for the advice

MichaelBlue · #5 (**permalink**) 28-08-03, 10:25 AM

The clitoris is at the top of the front of her vaginal opening.
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You don't simply run your fingers inside he vaginal canal (although some women like this as well), you gently (or firmly, if she asks) massage this area, but as mentioned, only after some foreplay...this is a sensitive area, especially when it isn't properly lubricated. Follow her lead, ask her to guide your hand if she's comfortable with that.

I feel weird giving this advice to someone your age, but I lost my virginity at 15, so what do I know.

sonal_is · #6 (**permalink**) 01-10-03, 12:11 AM

hmmm this is a good one, Im 16 and I've was able to make my ex orgasm like all the time through fingering, you need some general foreplay to get them really revved up and wet. You can ask her, but I always thought it was better cos I felt like I knew what I was doing etc. It was more general massaging but you definately needed to explore the canal, she definately found it entertaining. It's kinda in there and up.
Other girls said I was pretty good at it too,

Hope this helps.

#7 (**permalink**) 06-10-03, 12:27 PM

Best thing to do, when the time comes, use your tongue.

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jane · #8 (**permalink**) 07-10-03, 10:19 AM

Good Choice! When in dought you use your tongue! LOL

#9 (**permalink**) 07-10-03, 12:43 PM

Thank you, Jane.

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jane · #10 (**permalink**) 08-10-03, 09:53 AM

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