new kind of problem.. help me!

[Emo Rock]

ok.. about 1 year ago, my-ex and i broke up. our sexual relationship was ok. during the intercourse it took me about 15-30mins to ejaculate. i guess i was normal at that time..
after a year with title 'solo', a month ago i met my new girlfriend.
and my problem is in my mind thesedays i've been imagining of her all the time. i don't enjoy pornos anymore, the thoughts of her body could make me wet just about anytime, any place.

we haven't made love yet, we just slept together once (at this time we were not ready for intercourse yet).
at that time she gave me handjob (at the same time we were kissing and cuddling), and it took me about 10-15mins to ejaculate. and THIS IS WHERE MY PROBLEM LIES.. i don't have mental strength for the intercourse NOW. i can't imagine if i ejaculate too early soon. she's seen me as 'one of the best thing ever happened in her life' and i dont want that title to be taken away due to my 'premature ejaculation' problem (is it?, or is it something else?). i feel like im still a virgin lately.. and demotivated as well.

additional infos..
1. before with this gal, hand job had never been a problem. same with blowjob and intercourse. is she goddess or witch or am i stupid? i'd been with few girls before, but never feel like this. i think i've forgotten all the skills.. heh. please, we'll be together back in 2 weeks time for just 2 nights. i need some solutions.. or maybe medications. im crazy now..
tq for all your helps.. i really appreciate your helps masters.
2. Anybody here familiars with 'breathing technic'? something like you take long breath when you thrust and release when you take it out..

[Laguna]

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Originally Posted by Emo Rock

i've been imagining of her all the time. i don't enjoy pornos anymore, the thoughts of her body could make me wet just about anytime, any place.

This is normal for a very hot girl. I do this every now and then. Also, sometimes when I watch pornos or masterbaute, I think of my ex and us having sex and I think of how hot her body was, etc.

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Originally Posted by Emo Rock

'premature ejaculation' problem (is it?, or is it something else?)

It dosn't sound like it. Maybe you are just really hyped up. Wait, so you guys had sex and you barely lasted i'm confused here? If so, try masterbauting before the sex, it will make you go super long. Longer then 15-20 minutes maybe even. So far, that is the best technique. As for ways to make yourself last, think about pleasuring her or don't think about the sex at all. Get your mind off of it. That takes some practice, but actually does work.

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Originally Posted by Emo Rock

1. before with this gal, hand job had never been a problem. same with blowjob and intercourse. is she goddess or witch or am i stupid?

I think she is just good at it. Maybe your just really hyped up or she is a lot more attractive to you and you like doing it with her. Try not to build yourself up so much, that makes you ejaculate a lot faster and crap.

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Originally Posted by Emo Rock

2. Anybody here familiars with 'breathing technic'? something like you take long breath when you thrust and release when you take it out..

I've heard of stuff like this before, but like I said try the techniques I said above. ^

[Cybog]

Um, just have sex/orgasm more than once....Don't worry, it's allowed. If you come too fast then compliment her and tell her you have been thinking of her all day. Take a 2 minute break. Go at it again. Problem solved.

[Emo Rock]

thanks a lot guys.. really need more threads. you guys are so helpful. tq so much again.