Girlz want it to

[misombra]

...well, sometimes guys don't respond well to that. there are many out there and not just the young ones. their ego's get all hurt and nothing will come of it anyway so why say anything. sad, i know...

but now maybe she trusts you more now and feels comfortable saying that to you, you know.

but yes, that would obviously be a better way.

[shh!]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Apache

A better way would have been to say...gee I'm still horny for you
Baby, or....I need more...I haven't cum yet Sweetie...etc...

Instead of...geeze is that all, WTF?

Yeah, don't mess with a man's ego about his sexual performance. He may not be able to get it up again.
:-D

[RoxyFoxy]

We'll mess with whatever we choose to.

If a man doesn't do it right in bed, I might be less in the mood next time.

[Apache]

Quote:

Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy

We'll mess with whatever we choose to.

If a man doesn't do it right in bed, I might be less in the mood next time.

So here's a question then...for the ladies:

How would you feel if your partner were to stop in the
midst of having sex, whether you orgasmed or not, and said
"gee I'm not getting much satisfaction here", putting his clothes on
and walking out of the room...

Women have egos too...although it tends to show more
as jealousy. Who is he comparing me to....etc.

[GrkScorp]

u know wat Foxy... the same way girls hate male shovanists, is the same way guys hate feminists...

i'm not telling you to go all out to please your guy.. but don't have sex with a fcuk him, it's all about me... mentality either, caz that's just not fair to the guy...

if u feel like u wanna get back at him... try not to think about getting BACK at him so much as him giving back to you... why do u wanna get back at him??? caz he doesn't go down on you as much???

TELL HIM THAT!!!!!

i don't know where everyone picks up the stereotype that guys are insensitive... if u tell him that.. you won't have time to put ur pants back on...

[misombra]

i think she's being more than fair to him. she just said she gives him blow jobs all the time. and he doesn't do it back. come on people give a little love. some men are just ****ing lazy admit it!!!

[Apache]

Quote:

Originally Posted by misombra

some men are just ****ing lazy admit it!!!

Thank you for the distinction.... "SOME"

My point of view? Yes...I love it when my woman goes down on
me. And usually I will stop her before I climax. Why? Because I
enjoy having it somewhere else much more.

And many times I will be the only one going south...and its what
I want. I'd rather get her so crazy climbing the walls for me. It
makes for a better ride...lol.

But...sometimes we will have our little oral only sessions...and its always
reciprocated.

[GrkScorp]

Thank You!!!

this is what i wish Foxy would get through her head...

if she asks her guy to go down on her... wat will he do??? say no???

if you're giving your guy mixed signals and start being all reserved about it... DON'T COMPLAIN that you're not getting head from your guy!!!

seriously... we're not training to work for the NSA as a codebreaker when we're having sex...

want better sex???

STOP fcuking around with your guy's head!!!

quit giving mixed signals... make up your mind as to what you want... and never post again on this thread!!!

[squirrley]

Been too long since Ive posted, and having hundreds of threads to look at, I choose to respond here.

Girl, dont feel bad, Im in a similar situation, and not giving mixed signals. I wonder sometimes if SOME men just dont enjoy "going south"..

Similar as well, is that I too give so much oral you'd THINK it was a hint you'd want something in return without having to say it outright...GO DOWN ON ME BABY! Come on, men cant be that OBLIVIOUS to the nature of oral sex.

Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, and Ive had TWICE to his hundreds of time of me peforming on him. Granted I love to give head, but once in awhile would be nice to have it reciprocated without having to be blunt.

I know what I want, and heres what Im doing to "fix" my situation...Im just not going to perform "as much". This man was getting head almost 6 times a week if not more...Im "downsizing". Call it mean, Im NOT holding out on him, just not performing to my max.

It shouldnt be this difficult to have reciprocation in a relationship. I wouldnt suggest dumping him over it, but find your own way of handling this without upsetting his ego, go from your standpoint, take a nice bath, hint around, etc. See what happens. Wish you well sweetie~

[RoxyFoxy]

squirrley, it's not a major issue.

He's been giving me hints lately that he wants to get serious, and i'm playing along. I know that when we get married, i'll never have to go down on him again if I don't want to.

And if he does want me to, I'm not going to be afraid to be blunt and tell him that I need him to go down on me first, or else he can take care of his little problem himself.

[GrkScorp]

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Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy

squirrley, it's not a major issue.

He's been giving me hints lately that he wants to get serious, and i'm playing along. I know that when we get married, i'll never have to go down on him again if I don't want to.

And if he does want me to, I'm not going to be afraid to be blunt and tell him that I need him to go down on me first, or else he can take care of his little problem himself.

yyyeeeeeaaaaahhhhhhh.... well... i dunno wat to tell you there foxy...

look... i know we got off on the wrong foot...

but... it sounds alot like you're planning to TRAP this guy...

you give him more than what he deserves... he gets used to it... he wants to make a commitment caz he's thinking (who else is ganna be doing all this)... and the answer is nobody... caz after you 2 tie the knot... it's all downhill from there...

think about it foxy... he'll be wondering... wat happened to the girl i married??? and you'll be saying.. here she is... but she lost the act...

i'm not trying to insult you, but the insult comes so easily...

do you see why???

it's simply not fair to both of you to go through something like that...

think about it... you're only 20... every day you waste with someone who's not right for you... is a day you could be spending with someone who IS!!!
before you know it... you'll be 30/40 and you'll be with the wrong person... and it won't be the same to try and find someone new... caz now you're 40... and you have the rest of your life to spend with someone starting from 40... not from 20 anymore...

my point is... that you shouldn't place too much weight on what this guy has to offer... but what he is willing to offer...
given, he is willing to offer you anything, or maybe in your case, not... lol... but what i am trying to say is...

is he willing to do anything for you, for both of you, for both of you and your family? foxy... when people work... and when people love eachother... money shouldn't be an issue.... after all... money has it's strange ways of comming, and security lands on the palm of your hand if you are really with the person you want to start and raise a family with...

it's all about motivation... why are you going to care about the kids of someone you don't really love...??? why is he going to want to make you happy if he really doesn't enjoy it??? if you both have no motivation... there is really no point in keeping this relationship alive...

[clynn]

well stated.

[Axel]

Sometimes guys don't want to screw you because they think you don't like it. Then again, he might be a little on the selfish side. Tell him you want more and he should be more than happy to comply. We live in the 20th century. Women have equal rights.

[MrDrum]

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Originally Posted by shh!

If he is cumming way before you, then he is either very selfish or very young.

That is the most ignorant thing I have heard on these boards yet.

[misombra]

lol well now here comes the guys that cum before the girls!!!