Girlz want it to

[RoxyFoxy]

Here is my problem,

I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now. In the past 2 months we've had sex only 13 times. I say only, since we actually had regular sex about 6 times. All the other times i've been giving him oral sex. I know he loves it, and he gets quite creative with his man juice. Without going into much detail, and to make a long story short, he doesn't seem to give me the same satisfaction.

Don't get me wrong, he's done it twice to me, and both times he drove me absolutly mad. But he doesn't seem to want to go down south that often. I don't want to push him or tell him directly, I really like this guy, but I would love it if he could pick up the hint in some way.

Any suggestions Please!!!

[GrkScorp]

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Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy

Here is my problem,

I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now. In the past 2 months we've had sex only 13 times. I say only, since we actually had regular sex about 6 times. All the other times i've been giving him oral sex. I know he loves it, and he gets quite creative with his man juice. Without going into much detail, and to make a long story short, he doesn't seem to give me the same satisfaction.

Don't get me wrong, he's done it twice to me, and both times he drove me absolutly mad. But he doesn't seem to want to go down south that often. I don't want to push him or tell him directly, I really like this guy, but I would love it if he could pick up the hint in some way.

Any suggestions Please!!!

Only 13 times??? in the past 2 months??? what's wrong with you???

yeah.. had to get that out of my system...

gets quite creative with his man juice??? Without going into much detail???

ok.. had to get that one out to...

nway...

look... don't feel that talking to him about what drives you mad is a bad thing... after all... you talk to "us" about it... and hell... we don't even know you... nor do we wanna make you happy...

but if you really like him.. let him know how you feel...

(WARNING) !!!

in case of emergency only.. use the following line with caution...

"hey.. look.. unless you start going south, your ganna have to get used to traveling alone next time you're planning to head up north.."



yeah.. you might wanna wait some time be4 you start pulling crap like that on the poor guy... but I think if you let him know... he'll be more than happy to migrate every other day of the week...

[daletom]

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Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy

. . . I don't want to push him or tell him directly, I really like this guy, but I would love it if he could pick up the hint in some way.

And WHY don't you want to tell him? Maybe he has some hangups about what "good girls" are supposed to enjoy. Maybe you need to wash before starting the playtime. Maybe a previous partner really criticized his technique. Maybe you need to teach him how to make love with you. Maybe he can't read your mind about what you want. Maybe he's waiting for you to read his mind about one of these "maybe's".

[Muffin]

tell him you want him to eat you out cause you love it when he does that.

[carpflounder]

I suggest you ask your bf why he is less interested in sex. I suggest you ask your bf why he doesn't give you oral sex.

It really veers into the crystal ball when we start wondering why he is this way. Theres many possibilities as to why he is unintrested....

[RoxyFoxy]

To be honest, part of the reason is because I give him mixed signals. I still feel weird about him going down on me, but at the same time, I really want him to.

And then, sometimes he will come way before I do, and I feel like he doesn't even care about me.

[shh!]

If he is cumming way before you, then he is either very selfish or very young.

[TAVS]

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Originally Posted by shh!

If he is cumming way before you, then he is either very selfish or very young.

You cant expect everyone to be a distance runner.....

[shh!]

No, but he can attempt to satisfy her before he satisfies himself...

[RoxyFoxy]

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Originally Posted by shh!

No, but he can attempt to satisfy her before he satisfies himself...

No. It's not like that at all. I said sometimes he does. But when he does, he always just leaves things the way they are, like sex is done and over. I'm not the kind that takes that, so I don't even bother faking it to make him think that i'm done. I let him know that he still has work to do, but he just doesn't want to. I think he just gets out of the mood when he's done.

[shh!]

Yeah, I have never faked it, for that would be self-defeating. And call me selfish, but I have come to EXPECT an orgasm during sex for the most part (if men expect it, why shouldn't we?), so I would not be very tolerant of him climaxing first, because you are right: they often lose interest once their own needs are met. That's why they should attend to you first. But maybe you are just more tolerant than I am.

[GrkScorp]

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Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy

No. It's not like that at all. I said sometimes he does. But when he does, he always just leaves things the way they are, like sex is done and over. I'm not the kind that takes that, so I don't even bother faking it to make him think that i'm done. I let him know that he still has work to do, but he just doesn't want to. I think he just gets out of the mood when he's done.

really... sounds like ur problem is too easy to fix...

next time u two are going at it... fake it... big time.. like you mean it...

then.. just stop..

do this like in the first 4 mins of sex.. caz there's no way he'll be done that early.. but then... just stop...

make shur he's all turned on and in the mood... and just go all cold turkey on him...

let him see how it feels like...

if you time it right... i'm shur he'll never give you that problem again...

[misombra]

cold blooded.

[TAVS]

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Originally Posted by misombra

cold blooded.

Yea, I'll say. Nothing worse than blue.

[misombra]

ugh, nothing worse than a man who is reserved and selfish in bed. i would've dumped him yesterday.