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10-08-05, 06:44 PM
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| | | Sex Fetish: what to do and where to stick it. I need sex advice and I need it hastily.
The wife has started a "bondage" thingy and I have no idea how to go about it.
Help!
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11-08-05, 10:17 AM
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| | | How about a bit more detail on what her definition of bondage is. If she started this, wouldnt you expect her to lead you for the first couple of times?
Hell bondage could be only tying up her wrists, or it could be full on S&M mouth gags, spreader bars, and 12 inch dildos.
I suggest you ask to go "shopping" with you.
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11-08-05, 11:59 AM
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| | | 12 inch dildos OUCH!!! | |
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| | bondage??? is that like sex with crazy glue?  | |
11-08-05, 07:11 PM
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| | | Phatman, you should definitely give it a go, push your limitations in your sex life. You will feel so liberated.
If you can get a sex swing set up in your room (or go to a specialist place) and use a ball gag it can heighten sensations beyond what you're used to.
Where do you live? If you're near Buckinghamshire I could come by and get you started, I have done this for a few couples. Sometimes I'm even allowed to join in!
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11-08-05, 11:32 PM
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| | | My God, I didn't know how much pain could be involved!
I must say that going to the lavatory hasn't been the same for days. I shall not be experimenting with such devices again.
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| | | Which device did you use? A retractor? | |
12-08-05, 04:44 AM
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| | Heehee, I remember when I first suggested bondage to my boyfriend. He hated the idea. Now he can't get enough of it. If you're finding things too painful Phatman_UK then may I suggest making sure you use a petroleum-based lube. They're thicker than regular lubricants so penetration is easier. We've found Anal Eze to be the best of all the brands, but you might want to experiment a bit. 
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26-09-07, 02:14 PM
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| | | If it's too much how about suggesting you be the dominite one in the bedroom, start slow with the hair pulling bitting try being dont be gentle when you such her, maybe that might be enongh for her if not try slowing introducing sex objects into the bed then, maybe take it slow an see what you both can handle before going into anything real heavey | |
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Originally Posted by Velvet  If it's too much how about suggesting you be the dominite one in the bedroom, start slow with the hair pulling bitting try being dont be gentle when you such her, maybe that might be enongh for her if not try slowing introducing sex objects into the bed then, maybe take it slow an see what you both can handle before going into anything real heavey Expert Tip #3,466: "Experienced posters have learned to check the date of the last post in a thread, as some of them may be obsolete. Like this one. It's two years old." | | The Following User Says Thank You to bohemiandonut For This Useful Post: | | |
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Originally Posted by bohemiandonut Expert Tip #3,466: "Experienced posters have learned to check the date of the last post in a thread, as some of them may be obsolete. Like this one. It's two years old." Lol thanks, i use to use this site alot about two years ago, but tis changed abit since then. dont mind me im just abit scattered at the momment just had a baby boy five weeks ago. pretty tired | |
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