Originally Posted by Broken smile
oh believe me i have! i have told him my sexual fantasies and asked him his!
i slip tthings in now and again and sometimes he really opens up! i suppose im just nit picking eventually i hope to have a very open sexual relationship with him where we can express ourselves completely! patience is a virtue i suppose
to some degree... but then to others it becomes a vice...
now i know exactly what he is feeling....
he's not ashamed of telling you how he feels... he just feels that he is respecting you by not acting vulgar around you...
he thinks that you DON'T want him to talk about sex, or stuff like that.. and that when you tell him to.. it's only some kinda test.. to see if he's preverted or not...
you have to let him know it's not.. if in fact it really isn't...
that'll just make him more open to him telling you stuff...
then... you have to give him examples of sharing info...
if he doesn't know what you want to eat... then don't expect him to cook up something and bring it to you...
get what i'm trying to say?
plus... stop acting all innocent... it's a huge road block to this problem...
if he thinks you're all goody-goody... then he may never feel right about talking openly about sex...