Originally Posted by Loveboat
I've heard that women wear very sexy lingerie, such as a corset, garter belt or negligee to bed it increases the frequency or number of ejaculation from the male. Women wear lingerie to keep the male sex organ hard and active all night. Is this a myth? Can anyone comment on this for me.
Speaking as a male guy person of the opposite sex - For me, the effects of most lingerie, and all of the "exotic" and "erotic" attire I've ever encountered, range from "no effect" to "mild turn-off". OK - I guess it IS somewhat stimulating to remove it fairly early in the foreplay; in other words, it looks best on the bedroom floor.
In general, I prefer to move toward full nudity rather early in the foreplay process and stay that way through afterglow and beyond. Although I've had a few extended sexual marathons, I don't recall lingerie or that other stuff ever being a factor - rather, I remember the stimulation and accessibilty of total nakedness being a key part of the process.
There are a few things that I DO find visually stimulating, but they aren't really among the items mentioned in the original post. Two that come to mind are:
- When my wife steps into the shower with me, wearing one of my white T-shirts. That always seems to start a round of playful sex, but the T-shirt itself soon lands on the bottom of the bathtub. (She says that my fondling her thru the wet fabric as it clings to her body makes her feel slightly naughty, but neither of us likes to feel it between us after insertion.)
- A single strand of pearls around her neck. When she wears her pearls to bed, I can count on extended, sensuous lovemaking.