| | | Quote of the month: "Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.
" ~ David Byrne |
| |
| 
18-09-05, 03:29 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 372
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | caught him masterbating the other night i saw my bf masterbating in the room next to me. to me this = rejection. i don't get it why would he do this when i'm in the next room. is he addicted to sex? or is he thinking of someone else? | |
18-09-05, 04:04 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2004
Posts: 83
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | Wait, how old are you two that you weren't sleeping together? Maybe he didn't wanna get caught doing something.
I jerk off because I know how to control my penis and I can control my cum, so it's almost like training. I don't like just jerking off to get off, but maybe that's just me | |
18-09-05, 04:09 AM
|  | atada a mis pies. | | Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: 45 degrees away.
Posts: 10,378
Thanks: 1,313
Thanked 1,208 Times in 905 Posts
| | | oh my lord. why are you so insecure? get over it. | |
18-09-05, 04:11 AM
| | Sick of life | | Join Date: Aug 2005
Gender: 
Posts: 671
Thanks: 23
Thanked 22 Times in 17 Posts
| | Him beating it in the room next to you is a little wierd, but every guy beats it, whether they are in a relationship or not. And ANY GUY who says differently is a ****in liar. We all beat. Hell I do it even when I don't want to, I'm just prone to it.  But seriously, don't take it as rejection. But unless you two live together?, I would tell him to stop beating it at your place, or at least do it when you're not around if it bothers you. | |
18-09-05, 04:13 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2004
Posts: 83
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | Well over the summer I rarely jerked off just because I got stimulation from my girlfriend like every day we hung out. But now that school's started I'm back to my doing it just to do it/train that pc up. | |
18-09-05, 04:13 AM
|  | Love Gurus "Hot Love Pancake(s)" | | Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Somewhere out there...
Posts: 2,345
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by misombra oh my lord. why are you so insecure? get over it. Exactly! I mean maybe he just wanted to jack off! SHouldn't feel like rejection to you. My ex used to do that everyday whether we had sex or not..... I had my own solo sessions too. Big Deal! Its not like theres someone else in the room w/ him.........
__________________
Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....  | |
18-09-05, 04:41 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 30
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by chelsee or is he thinking of someone else? yes, he is. | |
18-09-05, 04:51 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2004
Posts: 83
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by Chreeeeeestoh yes, he is.
HAHAH that was mean. | |
18-09-05, 05:36 AM
| | Sick of life | | Join Date: Aug 2005
Gender:
Posts: 671
Thanks: 23
Thanked 22 Times in 17 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by jb5k1 HAHAH that was mean. I'm not going to lie. He probably was thinking of someone else. I can say from experience that I never jerk off to thoughts of the person I'm with at the time. That person never even comes into the picture when I'm beating. But than again I'm usually not thinking, I'm just watching porn. You just need to let it slide off your back. It's not like he's with any other person. | |
18-09-05, 05:41 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 372
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | it just freaked me out i guess, because i was in the other room. if it's just a guy thing i can accept that. | |
18-09-05, 07:09 AM
| | Moderator | | Join Date: Apr 2004
Gender:
Posts: 4,151
My Mood:  Thanks: 254
Thanked 126 Times in 98 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by Chreeeeeestoh yes, he is. He was thinking about you're sister! | |
18-09-05, 07:18 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 372
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | lol kiechi, he was really thinking about your sister! | |
18-09-05, 08:21 AM
| | Moderator | | Join Date: Apr 2004
Gender:
Posts: 4,151
My Mood: Thanks: 254
Thanked 126 Times in 98 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by chelsee lol kiechi, he was really thinking about your sister! LOL. That wouldn't be right because my sister is only 9  | |
18-09-05, 09:00 AM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 316
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | well i disagree, i dont jerk off.. havent done for about 7 months, well.. since i met my first sexual partner... but well i guess i'll have to clean the pipes out sometime, its been 6 days now :| | |
18-09-05, 09:02 AM
|  | bad influence | | Join Date: May 2005 Location: Los Angeles
Posts: 7,155
Thanks: 840
Thanked 823 Times in 604 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by chelsee the other night i saw my bf masterbating in the room next to me. to me this = rejection. i don't get it why would he do this when i'm in the next room. is he addicted to sex? or is he thinking of someone else? Poor guy! How humiliating for him, especially if you felt the need to shame him over it. (I hope you didn't.)
Unless you have complaints about your sex life in general, you should get over this; it isn't about you. He probably just wanted to relieve himself with out the whole production of needing to reciprocate, which turns a 3 minute experience into at least a 30 minute production. Besides, men who masturbate learn better self-control. It will benefit you in the long run. | |
| Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Rate This Thread |  Linear Mode | |
Posting Rules
| You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off | | |
All times are GMT +8. The time now is 05:04 PM.
| |
