Originally Posted by disasterjohn
Hi,
Been with my g/f for about 3 months now... after about a month and a half she let me masterbate her 3 times in one night.. she had a try at doing it to me too(she didnt seem to do to well). I did it again twice after that after various lengths of time(1-2 weeks apart) but she wont do anything to me anymore.
She said she was alright with it all but I dont think she was ready for it all.
How long do people normally wait before they even try and move on from just kissing and huggling? we are both in our 20's...both virgins and have very little experience between us.
All new to me
John
Hmmm, fastest I've gone from meeting a person to having sex would be measured in minutes, I would say on average spending a solid 7 hours of time with a girl is enough to get her to have sex with me, with sex-shy women on the edge of the bell curve at 10 hours.
Basically, there are no rules to it, there is no minimum time you are required to spend. Move at the rate that you
want to move at, but respect her wishes along the way.