y does still hurt her? - Love Forum

suspence · #1 (**permalink**) 26-09-05, 05:40 PM

ok, my girl and i have been together for a year now(actually next month is a year) anyways, we have sex quit-a-bit. im not affraid to admit that my penis size is only a little over 6 1/2 in, but for some reason it still hurts her sometimes when we have sex,especially when shes on top...wut do yall think? im looking for both sexes opinions on this...thanks alot

gHEXjt · #2 (**permalink**) 26-09-05, 08:01 PM

6 1/2 is definitely not small man. Don't even worry about it. But I don't know what to tell you about it still hurting her.

BlackRose · #3 (**permalink**) 26-09-05, 08:02 PM

Use more lube and try again.

NeoSeminole · #4 (**permalink**) 26-09-05, 09:19 PM

why do guys assume that if their girl hurts during sex, they must have a big penis? Maybe you're doing something wrong, she's too tight, or you aren't using enough foreplay. I highly doubt it's b/c you have such a massive c*ck. 6.5" isn't really that big.

shh! · #5 (**permalink**) 26-09-05, 09:46 PM

Geez, give the guy a break! His post didn't give me the impression he thinks he is over-endowed; I think he is just wondering what is wrong.

Assuming she is properly aroused and lubricated, her on top might just be a bad position for her. This is a very penetrative position, and if she is petite, it might just be that this position is too much for her. She may even have a tilted uterus. Try switching to a different position, and if she still has problems, have her check with her doctor to see if she has a tilted uterus.

Junsui · #6 (**permalink**) 26-09-05, 09:51 PM

I would have her check with her doctor. Usually being on top gives her more control of how far you go in and everything. So I would think that would make it less painful. Do you know what kind of pain?

Ellynn · #7 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 03:41 AM

It hurts her because she drys up. NO MATTER WHAT SIZE YOU ARE .....this can irritate the skin down there causing it to be unpleasant. Condoms really tend to take the moisture away sometimes......or if your going at it for a long time.

Try lube! Works like a charm....

suspence · #8 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 05:09 AM

ok this whole lube thing seems like it could be it...we wear condoms and tha couple of times we havent, it didnt hurt her...and just for tha record, i wasn't trying to say i was well endowed i was just askin cause im not sure of the average size and i personally thought i was small(but thats prolly cause ive seen so much porn lol) thanks for yalls comments but another quick question because i know absolutly nutin about lube......is there a certain kind i should buy? like like look for it to say sumtin special on it? thanx

Ellynn · #9 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 05:12 AM

I liked millenium lube......made by EZ glide. You can get it at adult stores........ If your not old enough to go there....then they possibly sell it elsewhere....

Is she on the pill? A side effect of the pill can make you dry up....even when you are sexually excited...

My ex was 8 in ...and was thick... Plus he lasted a long time. The first few times we just did it with a condom and after awhile from the friction....it would be painful and after sex sometimes....I could barely walk/sit. So then I picked up some lube(a friend advised me to) and it made things alot better!!

I definately think its the condoms though. The times I did have sex without a condom I was fine. But its best to use condoms.....so get some lube as well.

Tone · #10 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 05:22 AM

Lube, glube, boob, snoob.

Edit: Oh shh! I was with you but now I see why everyone was so mean to this guy, look at the poll he has attached to this thread, look at his first post and the poll options.

NeoSeminole · #11 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 05:36 AM

shh, he asked why his girl hurts during sex and mentions his penis size in the same sentence. I could understand if he said he is 3", but he even added a poll to see if anyone thought 6.5" was small. What am I supposed to say?

shh! · #12 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 05:40 AM

Well, I can see why you thought it, but guess I just didn't read it that way. I was seeing it as more like "why should it hurt, I am only 6.5"..." Then again, I didn't even notice the poll. Perhaps you are right. I am sure you know the way men think better than I would...

shh! · #13 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 05:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tone

Lube, glube, boob, snoob.

Edit: Oh shh! I was with you but now I see why everyone was so mean to this guy, look at the poll he has attached to this thread, look at his first post and the poll options.

Yes, no question about it - neo was right.

suspence · #14 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 07:11 AM

wow some of u ****ers are ass holes, i never meant it to come across that i was well endowed if u would have actually read my other post it explains that. and wuts this shit about "i see y everyone was so mean to this guy"? and who tha **** is neo? i came here to get ppls opinions on certain matters not to have cyber geeks attck me for a ****en post.

suspence · #15 (**permalink**) 27-09-05, 07:14 AM

ok nevermind now i see who neo is. well i never meant i was and if u took it like that its ur problem, i was trying to get 2 questions i had answered at once