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23-11-05, 08:33 AM
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| | | Ellow everyone thanks for this forum site! My name is Bivzy and an asian heritage (filipina). Born and raised in California. I am 22 turning 23 next month! nyways, just read some post here and i thought it would be nice to be a part of it. thats all. anyone who wants to welcome me thanks in advance. LOL. I have a lot to share about my past and present relationships so i hope this is going to be fun!  cheers.... | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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23-11-05, 08:40 AM
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| | | 'Sup chickgirl.
How 'bout you post us a picture eh?
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23-11-05, 08:56 AM
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| | uhmm nothing. just wandering around the world at the moment trying to figure out why do i have to share my boyfriend to tons of loads of people including his ex wife! I know this sounds something alot going on but it sucks. I dont know what to do on christmas. I am so bored and dont have many friends. I am moving to London next year and i not too sure if i want to do it. I lvoe my boyfriend but i think he is getting too old. He has 3 kids with from an ex wife. Every December he would go and spend christmas with the whole family in some other state and he is just dragging me along to come with him. I hate being around him and his ex wife. He always tells me they are best of friends but i have too many doubts. I do know that they care for each other but dont have any romantic thiny going on. i dont know what to do with him. He wouldn't spend christmas with me and my family either. It sucks! I have no one to talk about this crap cuz i am embarass with my friends. They might tell me i am being stupid. Or they might say, i have no standards! So this place is perfect for me to whine over if you guys dont mind.  ( | | 
23-11-05, 08:57 AM
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| | okay ill go take some pics of me and post it up here. Sometime tomorrow! I promise  | | 
23-11-05, 08:57 AM
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| | | Sure, why not, we're use to it.
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"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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23-11-05, 09:02 AM
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| | | Hi, Fili, and welcome.
You are too young to be dealing with a man with 3 kids and an ex-wife. Why aren't you out doing the things you SHOULD be doing at your age? | | 
23-11-05, 09:06 AM
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| | | lol. Life sucks for me right now but oh well, cant do much of anything about it. Either leave everything behind and start new life in england or stay here and just keep on playing with my present thoughts till i go crazy? I dont know. How and where can i post my pic here? | | 
23-11-05, 09:13 AM
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| | | because my bf wont let me go! And i am gradually loosing my friends because of him but i still love him. I mean it isn't his fault if he has 3 grown up kids and still cares for his ex wife. His youngest is actually older than me by one month! And yeah he is 63. It is wierd and i dont understand my friends when they tell how disgusting it is to be dating an old man. Does age really matter? I have dated lots of other young guys too but none of them are any good other than this old fart i have right now. We've been going out for atleast 3 years now and is still not engage whatsoever. Am i going in a wrong path? Should i just go and just forget him? I knwo i will be devastated if i do so. I dont freakin know what to do. Its too hard! Does anyone here have situation like me? Please talk to me. Lets get it over with together! | | 
23-11-05, 09:48 AM
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You can't be serious. | | 
23-11-05, 09:58 AM
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| | | He's 40 years older than you?? That's, actually really sick. sorry.
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23-11-05, 09:59 AM
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| | | First, Welcome to LF. Second, gross! Why would you want to date a 63 year old? Needing a father figure in your life? | | 
23-11-05, 10:00 AM
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| | | ....or grandfather.
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23-11-05, 10:02 AM
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| | lol Yeah maybe. My dad is 62!  | | 
23-11-05, 10:18 AM
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| | | :(( so i just go and forget about him? move to europe and just vanish? He is not a bad guy at all. Its just, its too hard to live without him to guide me. my parents has basically abondoned me and my friends have their own life going on. I have dated many young guys but 90% of them are just playing around and you know just want sex. I am too tired of playing around and not being serious. I just want to settle down (you know get married and stuff). But seems like he is not the right person for that mirriage dream of mine. (LOL) although he has the perfect personality of the guy that i want. His daughter has always told me that i am not for his dad and always telling me that his dad is just using me as his companion which i think she is just ****in around me and want to piss me off. I find those things challenging and make me stay with him just to prove to her that she is so wrong and stupid for judging people becuz she is jealous or something. i dont know what her motives are but i dont like it and she always critisizes me. I swear I am not that ugly but it is too hard to find a serious guy that want to be married and settle down. How would i fix this? | | 
23-11-05, 11:57 AM
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| | | Well, I really think you need to get out of that relationship and get into therapy. | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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