Have you ever sat there, and thought why do I exist? Confused and not knowing what's going to happen the next day? I do this almost everyday. I miss the old times but also regret them as well. There's ton of people on here trying to help others find meaning in their debacle they call a relationship. So many with advice but also lost in their own relationship. Wishful thinking, I think. I don't even know if it's even possible to find the "right one". Just when you do think you have found the right one, life slaps you in the face with a simple answer, "ehhhhhhh nope try again!" Then from there it's like auto-pilot we go to others for answers. I mean what the hell are we looking for? Friendship? Companionship? I just wished I knew what the hell I'm actually looking for. Unfortunately right now its in a bottle.....
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Haven't you ever seen one of those old couples who still love each other? Sure, it's rare. Humans are eternally hopeful. We keep buying lottery tickets and trying to find "the one".

Isn't that beautiful?

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I think all women really want is to be proven wrong about men.

I love to gamble. But damn, a wife and kids? Gee. You have a 50/50 shot at a decent marriage. Or your wife will leave you with the kids and half your shit.

Err. I'll take the lotto ticket, thank you.

think, think, think, at last, u will find something new

Yea, I found the best thing is not to think at all just go with the flow

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This sounds like a simple thing to do...

I tell myself that every day, and still, I continue thinking too much. And the more you think, the more depressed you get. So...yeah! Think less, act more. As simple as that.

Just please, throw away the bottle, spit out that omg-fill-my-void snack, turn the freakin' computer off, get out on the fresh air, and do some exercise.

You shouldn't attempt to find the meaning of your life in the form of a romantic relationship. Your life should have meaning separate from what a lover gives you.

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life is so beautiful..and u should be happy~^_^

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I am a chinee guy ,this is my first time here ,i read over and over and i know all your mean but i don't know how to express myself about this point in english exactly and freely ,i hope someday in the future we can talk about it face to face ,but now i only know chinese plywood ,it can help me make money and support my family .
Thank you everyone here .

hey i feel ya ibby. i miss the old times too ya know. and wonder. the same thing - what the hell am i looking for. and quite frankly i have no idea. yes its love, friendship and all that crap. but more than that its a reason. a reason to live for and one to die for. to give it all some meaning. like that movie the castle. where they built the wall because it gave them meaning and they could call it their own. they built it again and fought for it. and died for it. it united them and inspired them. maybe thats it. love, friendship, companinship, we just want a wall that will stand forever even after we are gone. or simply a wall to lean on. eh.

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..the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except the best ..

-- Henry Van Dyke

you feel this way because you haven't found a reason to live yet.

When peoples live in affluence, they always lose their mind.I am the have-not in legend, and i must work hard for my life, i must earn more money, i must take responsiblity for my family.

I'm content to bask in the genius of literature, the beauty of nature, and the warmth of woman. Or some bullshit like that.

haha i don't my time wondering what i can't control. basically you exist because your parents love to have sex and they hated using protection.

but you're a drinker eh?? i like you already.

raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...