Intro - Love Forum

Confusedguy · #1 (**permalink**) 08-11-07, 11:42 PM

Hi there.

I'm Confusedguy.

Just wanted to say hi and let y'all know that I'm here.

Something about me?
I'm 32 years old, 6 ft, caucasion, dark hair, I live in Canada.
Yes, I am married, but I'm very very lonely in it, so I guess that's why I found myself on this site.

I'm just looking for someone to chat to, ya know, to have some fun, nothing serious, or adulterous.

So, IM me if you want to chat.

CG

Frasbee · #2 (**permalink**) 08-11-07, 11:51 PM

Nobody is going to IM you, just so you know. I'm not quite clear of what your expectations are of this site.

Confusedguy · #3 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 12:07 AM

Well, at leasst you are honest

Thanks for that.

Frasbee · #4 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 12:17 AM

Lemme just say that this isn't a dating site of any kind. If you got shit you wanna talk about, by all means. Feel free also to put in your opinion on any other threads you come across.

There's plenty of serious, as well as fun discussions to be had.

Gribble · #5 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

Nobody is going to IM you, just so you know,

WRONG. I IMed him. In your face.

Frasbee · #6 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Gribble

WRONG. I IMed him. In your face.

Why don't you make like a cunt and get fúcked.

Tedel · #7 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 12:52 AM

Please, ignore some guys and welcome to the Forum. Enjoy and participate as well.

Confusedguy · #8 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 01:04 AM

Thanks all for the welcome.

Gribble, I saw your IM, but I can't reply yet...something about needing 15 posts, so I'll send you back as soon as I can

But thanks for making me feel welcome and accepted already.

Gigabitch · #9 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 04:14 AM

The twats are already fighting over you.

Okay, CG, so your wife doesn't give you any lovin? I think that's an emergency!

Confusedguy · #10 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

The twats are already fighting over you.

Okay, CG, so your wife doesn't give you any lovin? I think that's an emergency!

Well, I can understand where she's coming from...when you are sick the last thing you want is sex. She's sick a lot....and like I said, when she is healthy (Honestly this is not really that often) she does other things that needs doing and then get's tired and fattigued (Some of her symptioms)

She knows that I need some luv'n, she also knows that her drive overall is lower than mine. She also knows how I feel about it, but she just can't get into the mood on the good days.

What am I going to do? I can't force her to have sex with me?

This has been going on for such a long time. I'm feelnig so thinly spread, Between a Super-Stressful job and taking care of her and our child at night time, I'm run ragged and I'm frustrated and I'm very, very lonely. So I found myself here to meet some friendly folks to have a chat or two.

Gigabitch · #11 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 04:56 AM

Even when I wasn't getting along with my ex-husband very well, I would still blow him occasionally. Part of the deal, IMO.

Confusedguy · #12 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Even when I wasn't getting along with my ex-husband very well, I would still blow him occasionally. Part of the deal, IMO.

I wish you could tell my wife that!

But more pressure on her about me wanting sex is just going to push her away. She's very sensitive about the subject too, so if I push too hard then things turn into a fight.
So I have to just back off.

We're in a new city so I do not know anyone, hence the increased loneliness.

I can't really see things improving in the near future (Say 6-9 months from now) so I thought that If I can get on a board where I can talk to folks and hang out in an open casual relaxed environment, it may help me.

The two sexy girls in the office doesn't help matters either!

Gigabitch · #13 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 05:14 AM

Frankly, I wish your wife would consider that it's a hungry dog that goes after the trash. Sex is part of marriage, that's pretty well established. I think you should jokingly bring up the idea of subcontracting, tell her you have a couple of candidates in mind.

No, I'm totally kidding. She'd go all Bobbitt on your dick. (Problem solved?)

Just so we're clear, I am NOT proposing that you cheat. Don't do that.

I imagine you must have quite the internet porn habit by now. Yes?

IndiReloaded · #14 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 05:27 AM

LOL. Welcome CG. I agree w/Giga, btw. Am also married, fwiw. You're wife wouldn't expect you to just decide to not go to work, would she? Sex is just another need. You're right that pressuring her won't improve things, but discussing this w/her in this way might.

Confusedguy · #15 (**permalink**) 09-11-07, 05:36 AM

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Frankly, I wish your wife would consider that it's a hungry dog that goes after the trash. Sex is part of marriage, that's pretty well established. I think you should jokingly bring up the idea of subcontracting, tell her you have a couple of candidates in mind.

No, I'm totally kidding. She'd go all Bobbitt on your dick. (Problem solved?)

Just so we're clear, I am NOT proposing that you cheat. Don't do that.

Gotcha, I won't (to the best of my ability, of course)

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I imagine you must have quite the internet porn habit by now. Yes?

Actually no...why? Wait for it....I'm Catholic.
So, no pron or masturbation for me... - Yah.