So after another brief stint with the post-virgin princess I'm back in the gray area... she called it off again the day I was going home for winter break. I was fairly honest with her during the breakup, explaining as calmly as i could that friendship is not the solution, but rather a revised sex-based plan for our relations, with more sex and less of everything else, like "hanging out." She "wasn't down."

I told her I would call her. ("Why?" - "...To say hi?")
We didn't talk on Christmas.
She called me 2 days ago. I gave her a few minutes...

So I'll probably be using this space to collect my thoughts and priorities, although I already know how that's going to turn out. Sure we were dysfunctional, but shit, you can't jerk yourself off with philosophy.

would you like a tissue in your time of pain??

raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...

I can think of a couple of posters here that might give you a run for your money on that one...

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I think all women really want is to be proven wrong about men.