Hi everyone,
I'm new to this forum thing but I think it will be a lot of fun. It'll probababy be a good outlet for me. My friends are probably tired of hearing about my "man issues" so I have another way to get them out of my system.
A little about me....I'm soon to be divorced, I have 5 children, and I LOVE men!!!
That about sums it up.
PEACE

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Dee

so when are you going to tie your tubes??

raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...

How do u know my tubes aren't tied for one and two, I was married for 10 years so what is the problem with having 5 kids? If we'd stayed together I probably would have had more. Is that an issue for u?

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Dee

hahahaha! hi dee never mind illusional.. the name speaks for the person.

we had the same reason in joining this forum.. no doubt our friends are really tired hearing of all our "men issues". and it's good hearing out other people's point of view so this forum is refreshing ( as i would describe it)

hahaha... if your tubes are tied then it's more power to you. however, how else do you expect someone to react to your post when you say that you're man crazy with all these dramas in your life and you have 5 kids?? good luck on explaining that one.

as for jinxy... don't hate on me because you just broke up with your boy... it's i'm only here to comfort other members by causing trouble to other members.. haha

raverboy

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FYI illusional, i dont have any intentions of hating anybody. you shouldnt have posted if you didnt want anybody to react to what you said. plus.. didn't you say i'm only here to comfort other members by causing trouble to other members??????.. that's also exactly what i'm doing. duh!

isn't this what the forum is all about? so people could say what they think? i think you'd better open ur mind a little more and be not so defensive (unless you're guilty!). i was more of having fun rather than hating. haha! i dunno where you got that notion. i might have broken up with my bf but im not taking it out on anybody.. esp that im not so into hating him. but as they say, thinkers are doers.. so maybe it's u who does! hahahahahahaahahah!

Well, Illusional...just to let you know...I'm not out making babies with every man I meet. I was married when I had my babies.

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Dee

I used to feel that way until I encountered Illusional. Now I just want to have HIS baby. How often to you meet a Japanese guy with a two-foot wiener, honestly?

Anyway, ILUVD, welcome to the circus. Don't let it get under your skin if someone says rotten things- it's the internet, after all.

I came here because I couldn't talk to my friends about my drama too.

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I think all women really want is to be proven wrong about men.

wow, now a foursome... this i dunno how much women could actually sharing themselves with me and two other women at the same time, but you three will have to do.

hey get it right dammit, the last time that i check, it was 2 feet and a QUARTER inch.. yes that extra quarter doesn't make all the difference when it comes to three women.

well with this in mind, you already have 5 children and i'm sure that you don't want to deal with any more possible dramas, more so baby mama dramas...

you have yet to learn that i can hold my ground when it comes to any shit talker amongst the forum. anyways, since amnesia is currently in circulation around the forum, maybe i'll refresh your memory...

how to forget.. pls help!!!

**** love!

you're welcome... but one thing, just remember that i love all members of the forum. even the ugly ones like lilwing.

all three of you women are lucky to have a dickhead like me in your life.



raverboy

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haha! i dunno illusional but i dont think u ever read my posts right. i never even mentioned of ever hating my ex bf. i love him to hate him. i might be heartbroken but im not hating my ex bf. im more like hating myself for the impossible situation.

plus, didn't i posted "how to forget..."??? coz i wanna learn the art of forgetting or how to have "amnesia". so you need not refresh memory coz i dont have asphyxia nor even a temporary loss of memory.


glad to know you admit you're a dickhead... coz that's exactly how u r. ahahahahahaha!

well if you don't love yourself in the first place, how do you expect to love anyone else around the forum?? especially people like me??

can i ask you a question, why do you always edit your post? second thoughts on your mind?? maybe you should get things straight the first time around.

raverboy

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Very true Illusional...I don't need anymore children but what if i meet the man of my dreams and he has no children and wants me to give him one? i don't want to tell him i can't because my tubes are tied. i want to be able to do that for him.

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Dee

i understand where you are coming from, but if i met a woman that had 5 kids, shit, that would be more than enough for me. (honestly i would never date a woman with 5 children, but i'm shallow like that). however, i dunno your personal situation as far as legal disputes so i won't really get into that shit.

on the side though, if this man already sees past your five children, then she can easily see past having his own child with you. you don't necessarily have to tie your tubes up, however, do you really want another child?

raverboy

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I've met quite a few men that have looked past the fact that I have 5 kids and there are a couple that i'm not even seeing anymore that still do things for my kids from time to time. The guy that i'm really into right now has a vasectomy (my Gemini) so more kids is not an issue. I have no intention of tying my tubes at this point but I'm not trying to have anymore children. I probably won't. But the last guy I was seeing actually sabotaged the condom the first time we hooked up b/c he wanted to get me pregnant. I cut him off. And if he had succeeded in getting me pregnant I would have been raising yet another one alone becuase he just went to jail two weeks ago. When I got pregnant with baby number five 2 years ago I had a few dudes mad at me b/c they couldn't be the father. I usually choose quality dudes. They are very caring and not "shallow" at all. They are all about accepting me and mine. Unfortunately, the man actually married is so upset that I don't want him anymore that my kids have to suffer for it and he's not here for them. I think thats his way of trying to get back at me but he's hurting no one but himself.

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Dee

can we talk personal??

being that the internet is strictly anonymous, some people still get offended... so answer if you want to. but are all these children of your blood in the first place? and if so, are they all from the same man?

raverboy

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