Hi I'm new here and I was wondering if I am reading too much into this or not but here it goes....

My cousin is engaged to a guy that is 20yrs older then she is. (she's 1 year older than me). He's a really nice guy so I can't tell if he is just being friendly or not but he always asks me for hugs every time that I see him. He always says "give me a hug.... I haven't gotten my hug from you" The hugs usually last an uncomfortably long time and other family members stare at us. He is always complimenting me, saying things like you are so smart, you smell really good, you are very beautiful ect. Last summer he was drunk and he kinda hiot on me. He followed me upstairs, backed me up against a wall and said "you know I give really good backrubs....." Thn he was like, "your cousin doesn't really love me" I got away from him and went downstairs. I started avoiding him. Then he always asks me "how come you never come over and visit us (meaning him and my cousin) anymore? You always used to come over." I told him I didn't want to impose on them and he said "you never impose. we just sit around and argue every night anyways..." Whenever he catches my eye, he always gives me a big smile. Sometimes he just smiles at me for an uncomfortably long time. He also asks me to dance with him sometimes when we are at family parties and once when we were talking about how long it takes to get through security at the airports and stuff, he started ticklig me and said "i'd frisk you!" Is this normal? I don't think so but maybe I'm reading too much into it.

Pooky

Reading too far into it?

Are you kidding?

You're reading into it as much as you should.

He wants to f*ck you and you're uncomfortable with it. Let other family members know.

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Heil Frasbee

Oh, my God- what a pigman! You should tell your cousin immediately. She shouldn't marry this creep. Marriage is too important to waste it on some jackass who follows your cousin upstairs.

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I think all women really want is to be proven wrong about men.

I agree with the others. he is disgusting, and your cousin is going to be hurt. You probably aren't the only other girl he is doing this to.

I think next time he does something inappropriate (trust your instincts) you should say loudly "do you think my cousin would appreciate you behaving this way?" Don't be nice to him. he doesn't deserve it.

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Hi I'm new here and I was wondering if I am reading too much into this or not but here it goes....

My cousin is engaged to a guy that is 20yrs older then she is. (she's 1 year older than me). He's a really nice guy so I can't tell if he is just being friendly or not but he always asks me for hugs every time that I see him. He always says "give me a hug.... I haven't gotten my hug from you" The hugs usually last an uncomfortably long time and other family members stare at us. He is always complimenting me, saying things like you are so smart, you smell really good, you are very beautiful ect. Last summer he was drunk and he kinda hiot on me. He followed me upstairs, backed me up against a wall and said "you know I give really good backrubs....." Thn he was like, "your cousin doesn't really love me" I got away from him and went downstairs. I started avoiding him. Then he always asks me "how come you never come over and visit us (meaning him and my cousin) anymore? You always used to come over." I told him I didn't want to impose on them and he said "you never impose. we just sit around and argue every night anyways..." Whenever he catches my eye, he always gives me a big smile. Sometimes he just smiles at me for an uncomfortably long time. He also asks me to dance with him sometimes when we are at family parties and once when we were talking about how long it takes to get through security at the airports and stuff, he started ticklig me and said "i'd frisk you!" Is this normal? I don't think so but maybe I'm reading too much into it.

ew. stay away from him.

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a wise man isn't always saved by his wisdom. just like a stupid man does not always do stupid things.

Why did you post this again?

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oooooo there's two?

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a wise man isn't always saved by his wisdom. just like a stupid man does not always do stupid things.

Yup. Damn, I hate that.

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i didn't see it.

gawd i feel silly.

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a wise man isn't always saved by his wisdom. just like a stupid man does not always do stupid things.

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I'm sorry, I didn't realize it would upset anyone. I just thought that perhaps this post should be under relationship advice and not the section for introducing yourself. Again, I'm sorry.

one thread will do it.

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a wise man isn't always saved by his wisdom. just like a stupid man does not always do stupid things.

This was taken from pooky's other thread with same name that has since been closed.


No problemo! Just so you know, everyone pretty much sees every thread, so there is no need to post multiple threads about the same thing. I'm not really sure why we have different sections except perhaps to class up the joint.

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what a ****ing creep. tell your cousin, tell your entire family and get this guy booted as far away as possible from you and your family!!!!