Hi everybody

[Perfect-Dreams]

Hi everone. I am 18 years old and from germany so that I first apologize my often weak english. In the last time I often visited german forums and per Google I found this forum per random yesterday. And what should I say? I really like it. I just read some threads and i have to say that answers seems more right, people more experienced and older than in the most of german forums in which are often too much kids with more or less understandable standpoints. Or to say it some easier, I am in a really difficult situation in my life and I hope to find here more motivation and more rightfully answers.

So I hope you apologize my english and that we got some really nice discussions

[blue]

hey perfect welcome! so what is the really difficult situation? Oh and your english is fine!

[nomas]

Hello, P-D. I love diversity. It's great we have someone from Germany here. Well, for all I know, we already had someone from Germany..but now I know for a fact.

I'm sure you'll find support on this forum, no matter what your situation. Many people have some good advice you may choose to listen to.

PS. How are the preparations coming along for the world cup in 2006??

[Illusional]

your english is bad?? it seems perfect to me. you should hear me talk when i'm speaking pidgin and i'm drunk. that is pretty bad english. raverboy

[nomas]

I don't drink.

[Illusional]

hrmm.. so what's your vice then??

raverboy

[nomas]

Not sure... my mom would suggest compulsive CD buying...but that's hardly a vice and it's tapered off.

Basically it's the produce of a relatively conservative (by US standards) upbringing coupled with a devoted/compliant Freddie who aimed to please, so I listened to the Do's and Dont's laid out by Mom and now that I think for myself: 1- I find it difficult to change things I've done for over 2 decades, regardless if there is no good reason behind it, and 2-when I do have a good reason behind it, it's no problem keeping some of the values that I think make sense or are healthy or what not. Not saying that "drinking vs not drinking" is a question of morals or values...it isn't to me, but I can see the advantages of not even getting started. I'm afraid it'll be like one of those things where once you get a taste, "it's over, buddy"... But, like I said, I am not judgemental about it at all. Obviously I wouldn't have many friends if I didn't hang out with drinkers. But you know, I know a few non drinkers. There are more than we think, I think..do you think?

We all think
Freddie