Thread: I need love!

Hey Monkey, welcome to the forums.
Just like to tell you that I know what your going through.
Im a year older than you, but still in your situation.
Unfortunatly, the fact that I am in this situation means that I dont have much advice for you.

Only thing I can think of is starting to make moves on the new girl before she becomes too much of a friend. I only fall for someone when I know them properly and am realy close too them, but by then I am too close and just become a best friend. So Im stuck. But you seam to have the hots for her already, so make your move! (after reading everyone elces advice 1st, lol)

welcome to the forums. You'll find your not alone with the problems of being a nice guy. Every female I know says that the one who loves me will be the luckiest girl around, yet i've been single 10 years because of it. Good thing i'm a patient guy.

it's funny because i have experimented a little with some girls i know. Just try to be a little keke or something and they seem to go right for it. but i don't want to be like this. i just wanna be me. why can't girls accept me??? So weird.

calm down killer.... it's not that you need a girl, you need to control your hormones.. try jacking off a couple of times and see if after you still desire a girl. usually after you release your tension, you should be good for a while. instead of urging to desire a girl, why not try going out and actually approaching one. talk to them at school, at work, at the mall, wherever you want to. you'll realize there are many of them out there. raverboy

Originally Posted by Illusional

...try jacking off a couple of times and see if after you still desire a girl. usually after you release your tension, you should be good for a while...

It really does work. I jack off everyday before I go to work so I dont end up hitting on my boss again and trying to take her to the storage room...

yeah me too.....i mean....umm....*leaves*

releaving tension is always a good thing. raverboy

Ha ha.

Ravoerboy beat me to the punch. I was going to say the same. One is, who says you have to be with a girl? You may really, really want to be with a girl, so what are you doing about it? If you want to increase your chances you have to get out there. If you are really trying to be social and meeting girls, you are bound to find someone interested in you, so long as you keep trying. There's someone for everyone. You're going to strike out a few times, but you'll get hits every now and then. Homeruns may be rare, but if you don't step up to bat, you'll never hit the balls (no pun intended). And if you strike out too much, your aim is high. Do something to improve yourself or lower your standards.

And, yes, patience is a virtue.

Freddie

ps. Welcome.

Thanks guys! I am really trying and I'm sure I'll find somebody oneday but it is kind of frustrating when this time may not be sooner rather than later. I have alotta love to give someone and I'm sure I can make her smile

dammit, i spelt relieving wrong...

raverboy

yeah just relax keep being friends and have fun. make a move if thats what you want try, and yeah keep jerking it

lol blue. will do