Thread: Hello all.

Hi all, another newbie here but longtime observer of this wonderful place, always thought there should be one of these and I'm glad to see such a quality place

Hope I can share my experience of the what I have felt with people as I'm sure people can relate and I can relate to them how love can change your life and change from being the most magical experience to the dark shallow pain within our hearts.

Well lets explain, 6 years ago I found the love of me life while working temporary at a job place, this women would change my life, we got married after 2 years of dating and bought a house, made a beuatiful daughter together, they were my world, I was happy and content. Thought I had found my Happy ever after.

This all changed when she walked out on me out of the blue and I did not see her for 3 days, I just took a step back and gave her space. I then met her after she finished work as I was really worried to find out the most painful news, words that came out of her mouth that were so surreal and twisted that I thought I was having a bad dream. She came clean that she'd been having an affair with an older man of 40 years old.

World was shattered.
After a week she came back to me to try again, but this lasted less than a week, after working 87 hours at work I came home kissed my wife on the cheek for her to tell me that she would perfer to be with some fat 40 yr old. I was forced to let go and walk away.

Been 8 months since that terrible time. life has changed, have to just put it all down to experience.

I still miss her, I suppose I always will but the trust and respect for her has gone, we are on friendly terms I see my daughter which is great, and I'm going steady with a new love who makes me smile.

Love eh.... can be great, but can be the worst thing that can happen to you.

whoa... this probaly should be in the dumping area but i doubt that it will get as much recognition...

however, (out comes the compassionate side) i think that you should forget this b*tch. hey, atleast i'm not giving the author sh*t. well i know that it's really hard being that you still probably love this woman and she is the mother of your child but you have to get past this all. right now you should focus more so on fighting for the custody of your child. that might really f*ck her up if that is your intensions. if you plan on sharing the child, that is another direction. however try not to concentrate so much on her, and place all of your energy if forgetting her and moving on.

raverboy