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13-04-05, 06:09 PM
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| | | Hello people! Hello everyone! How are you all doin?
I am Leinadra, I am 20 and I am from the Philippines.
I am lucky to have one of the most wonderful man in the world.
The main reason I went here is to get more informations on handling a long distance relationship better. He is in California and I am way over here in the Philippines. We have a good relationship going on, but there are certain situations that I have this negative things in my mind that I cant take off right away. I sometimes think of him having an affair with someone else, stuffs like that. I know it isn't healthy in a relationship to be like that. I want to get them off my head. He always assure me he will not do that and give more trust in him. He is very supportive. I want to be more positive and I am looking forward to spending my life with him. I love him and I want to be good enough for him. Help me guys!
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13-04-05, 11:30 PM
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| | | hey..
well all my best wishes that your dreams come true... Its difficult to be in a LDR, but dont worry..you seem a nice and honest person.. He wont do anything wrong.. Just have faith in your relationship..Dont bother him too much, and dont let your insecurities take toll on you..
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14-04-05, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Leinadra Hello everyone! How are you all doin?
I am Leinadra, I am 20 and I am from the Philippines.
I am lucky to have one of the most wonderful man in the world.
The main reason I went here is to get more informations on handling a long distance relationship better. He is in California and I am way over here in the Philippines. We have a good relationship going on, but there are certain situations that I have this negative things in my mind that I cant take off right away. I sometimes think of him having an affair with someone else, stuffs like that. I know it isn't healthy in a relationship to be like that. I want to get them off my head. He always assure me he will not do that and give more trust in him. He is very supportive. I want to be more positive and I am looking forward to spending my life with him. I love him and I want to be good enough for him. Help me guys!
Here is a link to my journal if you want to be part of my world:
My LiveJournal
If you are a member, add me and comment on my posts sometimes. Thanks.
You can also send me your advices at iamjenkz@yahoo.com
As long as he is the same age and your not a mail order bride I be sure not to critisize. Funny enough, I was readin' a thread of asiasfinest forum and it had the same situation but it was from a man from USA? Is this the same situation? | |
14-04-05, 03:03 AM
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| | | ooooooooooh, mail order brides...
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14-04-05, 03:45 AM
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| | | hey,
Did you travel to USA or something or did he travel to philippines? How did you meet him?
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14-04-05, 05:25 AM
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14-04-05, 05:36 AM
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| | | It's always the Internet.
Sometimes..
Welcome! =D
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14-04-05, 07:04 AM
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| | | i think she just replied to a random letter in the mail. besides, the internet is full of sickos
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14-04-05, 09:55 AM
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| | | aww...internet love. the gayest thing in creation..and yet...you can't help but be fascinated by people that do it.
And as for mail order brides...i'm still waiting for mine to come. -taps foot impatiently-
err, and welcome :D?
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14-04-05, 10:08 AM
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| | | you can be my mail order bride....
*takes out wallet*
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15-04-05, 10:50 AM
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| | I read this article about being positive and it says, if there's something in your life you don't want, stop worrying about it coz the energy you put into it keeps it alive. We choose how we see people and it's not other people's behaviour that determines how we feel about them it's more on our attitude. Take people in your life and focus on what you like about them, and your relationship will improve. Loving people means giving them the freedom to be who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Love is allowing people to be in your life out of choice so just enjoy it while it last. Do everything you can to make it work, but don't be too attached to the point of being desperate. Any conscious thoughts, repeated over a period of time becomes a reality. So just relax and trust him. If it doesn't work, then move. But I sure hope things will work out for you.  | |
16-04-05, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Illusional you can be my mail order bride....
*takes out wallet*
raverboy aww man...-snaps fingers-
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16-04-05, 08:20 AM
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27-04-05, 02:41 AM
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