sleep masterbation problem - Love Forum

MidnightRose · #1 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 10:11 AM

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this is a question for the guys, but if the ladys know anything that would be helpful as well. I am 21 and my boyfirend is almost 23. Sometimes when he is sleeping he starts to masturbate. it sounds stupid but it wakes me up and i need my sleep. i am 6 months pregnant. i talked to him about it and he swears that he dosnt know what i am talking about. it hurts me because i try so hard to please him he says he is satisfied and then he masterbates. i know that he is masterbating because he makes noises. i really need some advice its driving me crazy.

shh! · #2 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 10:13 AM

What exactly is bothering you - that he is masturbating or that he is waking you up?

MidnightRose · #3 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 10:19 AM

it bothers me that he is doing both. i dont mind him masterbating, but i do after we have sex and he dose it an our later

shh! · #4 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 10:28 AM

Only an hour later? Impressive...

I will assume you've done the obvious and asked him NOT to masturbate in bed while you are sleeping. If he continues to do it anyway, I guess you can always resort to physical violence. Or wear earplugs.

Ellynn · #5 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 10:58 AM

Even though Im sure hes getting plenty from you.....its normal for a guy to masturbate in his sleep. He has a dream....gets aroused...and goes for it.

I wouldn't pin it on anything your doing wrong......

But I can see how it would get annoying while your trying to sleep. Then again I never really did get really good sleep sleeping next to anyone....at all.

MidnightRose · #6 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 11:21 AM

he also says that usualy if he has dreams that he remembers them and he said that he dosnt remember anything it is frusterating to him too but the weird thing is that sometimes when i leave the room and come back he is doing it and he is the type that likes to do it alone except if we are doing it together so i dont know what the problem is and belive me because i am pregnant i want sex all the time he is the one that has to fight me off lol

Ellynn · #7 (**permalink**) 29-09-05, 11:58 AM

Yeah I hear when your pregnant your hormones go wild!! I would definately take advantage....

Nitrogen addict · #8 (**permalink**) 02-10-05, 12:32 AM

If you waked up, could you try to help him? Look what does he do and try to do the same things for him. It could be more enjoyable. And then fall asleep again together. I think it is very romantic.