First time mess-up - Love Forum

helplssguy · #1 (**permalink**) 13-09-04, 09:22 PM

Right, well mines a mess, im a guy (17 ffs) who hasnt kissed before, and basically I thought i had messed up on the first one. She went straight in for french kissing and I was like whoo! calm down. So im totally lost and when I did actually ask her she sed that she didnt know how to explain kissing or show it if u know what I mean. So ive told her, yet that hasnt got me anywhere. any ideas people?

I mean ive kissed before, but never like a proper snog, just a quick kiss. So i seriously need some help.

Step by step instructions anyone?

Steve2004 · #2 (**permalink**) 14-09-04, 07:28 AM

I just skimmed through the "How to kiss" post..but go there, it might help and we can avoid people repeating themselves

Draven · #3 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 09:23 AM

practice makes perfect, everyone has there own style, just shuv ur tongue in her throat, and do like circles, and the more u do it, the better you get.

Steve2004 · #4 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 12:12 PM

uhm...sh..you dont know what you're talking about.

"shoving your tongue" down a girl's throat is in no way attractive or appealing

abercromqt20 · #5 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steve2004

"shoving your tongue" down a girl's throat is in no way attractive or appealing

i will totally second that one!

KirstyM · #6 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 09:27 PM

Erm yeah I third it!

To the original poster, as Steve said, have a look at some of the older threads on this board, but really it will come naturally, especially if she is more experienced then she will kind of lead you til you get the hang of it. Dont worry about it; just go for it.

manonfire · #7 (**permalink**) 31-10-04, 01:19 AM

hmm try to get like one lip, i prefer top,, and just keep kissing and moving your tongue in her mouth and like.. yah i guess it is really hard to explain. lol. forget it.

abercromqt20 · #8 (**permalink**) 31-10-04, 03:11 AM

i don't think it's something that can really be explained. i think everyone freaks out about it, and wants to hear some magical answer that will make them this fantastic kisser their first time. well im going to tell you there isn't one. i think the only way to learn here is through experience, especially because everyone kissed differently. Just take it slow and you to will be fine! you'll find your guys' style. so just do it already

#9 (**permalink**) 31-10-04, 03:20 AM

http://www.loveforum.net/t4196-when-...t-time-is.html

BandoMan · #10 (**permalink**) 21-11-04, 08:40 AM

I don't know if it's just me but I personally hate too much tongue when kissing. I dunno... I'm a freak. Just like those gentle loving kisses.