What to do - Love Forum

bbk · #1 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:32 AM

Hi,
Well I really like this girl in my class and we have only started talking recently. We used to... not hate but...we wouldnt really talk to each other.
Anyway, this year we really hit it off. We are good friends now adn I have developed feelings for her.
So my question is, How do I know if she likes me? Ok she talks to me but I have never been good friends(or in this kinda situation before) with a girl before. Therefore I have no idea how to know if she like me.
Thanks in advance
BBK

Taranee · #2 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:36 AM

Well, have you tried asking her out?

bbk · #3 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:42 AM

No. Thats one of the problems. If I ask and I doesnt want to, that could damage our friendship. I dont want to do that.
What should I look out for? ie signs that she might like me too.
Also, I am overweight ( not huge but big ) and my confidence is not that good.

Rosebud · #4 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:48 AM

Well I wouldn't jump the gun yet on doing anything over board because of teh friendship. But if she goes out of her way to touch you, or you see her looking at you from accross the way then those are all signs but it's hard to tell not knowing the person since everyone expresses themselves differently.

bbk · #5 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:51 AM

Ok so I will wait a bit untill I see some signs. I will just be myself.
Thanks

Rosebud · #6 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:53 AM

That's always best bbk. Just be yourself and go with the flow. You don't want to damage your friendship and with you not having all your confidence it's not best to just walk up to her and ask. Be patient though and try and see what kind of signs she throwing your way ok? Good luck to you!

Taranee · #7 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:54 AM

Your appearances is of little consequence. Try to be a bit more confident about yourself. Trust me that works.

If a girl likes you she will like you for who you are. Inside and out. Just relax. Be positive! Smile. Nobody wants to be around someone who has a negative outlook.

And how to pick the signals... Ehm, I do know that I always play with my hair when I like a guy. I heard about that bodylanguage thing. You should check for those signals. That's usually the best thing to do. Because it's really hard to fake body language.

Good luck.

bbk · #8 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 08:57 AM

Thanks all
This is very much appreciated

Rosebud · #9 (**permalink**) 23-10-05, 10:19 AM

Good Luck!!