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26-10-05, 03:16 PM
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| | | need help with guys Hello there,
I just joined loveforum two seconds ago, and I was wondering if I can get some help with guys.
So, I met this guy at a group dinner last month, and he seemed interested in talking to me once in a while during that dinner.
a few weeks later, I added him to my friendster profile, and although he hadn't logged in to his account for one month, he logged in to add me the same day I sent the invitation.
Now I want to send him a message; I want it to be casual, but the kind of casual that would also draw his interest in replying and keeping in touch.
What shall I say? please help me out.
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26-10-05, 03:57 PM
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| | ok, so how come nobody has even viewed my message?!??!
is it that boring?
Originally Posted by nAzGiRl05 Hello there,
I just joined loveforum two seconds ago, and I was wondering if I can get some help with guys.
So, I met this guy at a group dinner last month, and he seemed interested in talking to me once in a while during that dinner.
a few weeks later, I added him to my friendster profile, and although he hadn't logged in to his account for one month, he logged in to add me the same day I sent the invitation.
Now I want to send him a message; I want it to be casual, but the kind of casual that would also draw his interest in replying and keeping in touch.
What shall I say? please help me out. | |
26-10-05, 05:13 PM
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| | | ok never mind, I think I know what to say. | |
26-10-05, 11:19 PM
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| | | Hi, girly! The most likely reason you didn't receive any responses is due to the hour you posted your question. I'm glad you worked it out on your own, though... | |
27-10-05, 04:36 AM
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| | | dont say something casual....they go right over guys heads. | |
27-10-05, 05:00 AM
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27-10-05, 07:41 AM
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| | | Is This a Good Sign? thanks for your responds!
so this is what I wrote to him eventually:
> Hello [his_name], how are you doing?
> This is Nazli btw, [myfriend's name]'s friend. I was just
> thinking about the evening that we all went out to
> dinner, and I thought I'd write you a quick note to
> see how you've been.
> feel free to email me back when you get the
> chance.
>
> Nazli
>
> P.S: So how's studying for MCATs going?
>
and this is what he replied two hours later. Is this a good sign by the way? cause no matter how long he hasn't logged in to his account, he logs in on the same day that I message him and messages me back... he also did the same thing when I added him.
hi nazli,
how's it going? not much here, i have two classes:
bio and chem. just doing a little studying and also
trying to find a job. other than that, not a whole
lot. what about you? wut u up 2 these days. talk
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27-10-05, 08:22 AM
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| | | Judging from the way you handled yourself over your initial post, I'd say you probably want to sleep on it before you do anything. SLOW DOWN.
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27-10-05, 08:23 AM
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27-10-05, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by nAzGiRl05 Is this a good sign by the way? cause no matter how long he hasn't logged in to his account, he logs in on the same day that I message him and messages me back... he also did the same thing when I added him. It's a good sign Nazli.
Find some common interests you can both talk about and explore (Favourite movies, music, past times). Exchange a few emails. If everything stays friendly see if there's a chance you can both go for a casual trip to a coffee house and just take it from there...
Good luck
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27-10-05, 11:54 AM
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| | | I agree with Mish... Exchange a few emails for a while then move onto a public meeting. Maybe with the friend you mentioned in the first email.
I also agree with Whaywardj... Not really meaning to judge you, but jumping to a conclusion that no-one is replying in such a short time (40mins/2hrs) makes me think you may be a bit insecure, and prone to rushing things. So take it slow, make him work for you as much as you work for him.
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30-10-05, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted by nAzGiRl05 ok, so how come nobody has even viewed my message?!??!
is it that boring? message = hey . how are you and how is life? 
Hussain
p.s. no its not boring,
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