Bad Idea? - Love Forum

Commendable · #1 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 09:44 AM

I need a confidence booster!

Should I or should I not ask my ex's friend to go see Saw II with me? I just like him, personality wise, not sure if I could have romantic feelings towards him....but I miss hanging out with him, of course when I did it was when i was with the ex soooo....I don't know...I'm confused.

Should I call? I'm such a wimp.

I'm still mostly in love with my ex, but I feel I need to at least try seeing someone else(it's been 2 months and I still cry daily, havne't spoken to him or any of his friends since), it might help to take my mind off of him. If I find someone else to think about all the time then maybe I can start to get over him.

I've never relaly dated before so I don't know what to do.

My ex was my first 'real' boyfriend and we had one date and we together every day after that, so the idea od actually 'dating' scares the crap out of me.

Debunkt · #2 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 09:48 AM

I agree that you need to move on. Not sure if it should be with his best friend. I mean, you don't want to see your ex, but hang out with his best friend, and its obviously going to happen. Try finding someone else to perhaps be interested in?

independent · #3 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 09:54 AM

Yeah, that might be a bad idea. It may come back to bite you, if you know what I mean. Usually after a break-up, friends are pretty much off limits. Not general mutual friends... but definitely "best friends" of the ex.

It puts the friend in a predicament. If he tells you no, does he tell his best friend that you called him? And if he doesnt, will he feel funny about keeping it from him?

And if he says yes, does he tell his best friend that he went to the show with you? If he doesnt, and the ex finds out - it makes you both look guilty. If he does tell him, he runs the risk of losing a best friend out of the deal (just out of "guy pride").

So for everyone's sake, I'd say yeah - that might be a bad idea.

CircleC · #4 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 10:02 AM

Nah, don't go with him. But make sure you see-saw! hehe

Thanks for giving me this opportunity. I appreciate your post.

Rosebud · #5 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 10:23 AM

what is with you and that see-saw?????

CircleC · #6 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 10:31 AM

I said I liked saying it in that other thread. You underestimated my commitment to it.

#7 (**permalink**) 28-10-05, 11:59 PM

LoL Circle

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Originally Posted by Debunkt

I agree that you need to move on. Not sure if it should be with his best friend. I mean, you don't want to see your ex, but hang out with his best friend, and its obviously going to happen. Try finding someone else to perhaps be interested in?

I agree. Even if things go well with you and his friend... well sooner or later you're going to be around your ex and that could end up causin a whole lot of problems. Just focus on yourself right now and work on moving on.

Airborne · #8 (**permalink**) 29-10-05, 08:29 AM

Aye, move on and invite him to Saw II

mhussain · #9 (**permalink**) 30-10-05, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Commendable

I need a confidence booster!

Should I or should I not ask my ex's friend to go see Saw II with me? I just like him, personality wise, not sure if I could have romantic feelings towards him....but I miss hanging out with him, of course when I did it was when i was with the ex soooo....I don't know...I'm confused.

Should I call? I'm such a wimp.

I'm still mostly in love with my ex, but I feel I need to at least try seeing someone else(it's been 2 months and I still cry daily, havne't spoken to him or any of his friends since), it might help to take my mind off of him. If I find someone else to think about all the time then maybe I can start to get over him.

I've never relaly dated before so I don't know what to do.

My ex was my first 'real' boyfriend and we had one date and we together every day after that, so the idea od actually 'dating' scares the crap out of me.

NO YOU SHOULDNT. Saw II is a very bad movie.

sorry .. couldnt resist.

if you want to ask him, ask him. if that makes you happy , go ahead and ask him. best of luck

Hussain

Commendable · #10 (**permalink**) 31-10-05, 07:55 AM

It probably isa bad movie, but we're talking about a guy who thinks Crazy Clowns from Outerspace(or whatever) is an awesome movie.lol.

I chickend out, didn't call but would still like too............

went to a kegger instead and made out with two guys(one who's engaged and another who probably dosne't know my name)
I think it might be better to date someone I actually KNOW, even if it means I'll have to face up and deal with my ex, whom I would like to remain friend with.....which what he said too, to bad he was apparently talking out his ass.

Late_vamp · #11 (**permalink**) 31-10-05, 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Commendable

It probably isa bad movie, but we're talking about a guy who thinks Crazy Clowns from Outerspace(or whatever) is an awesome movie.lol.

I chickend out, didn't call but would still like too............

went to a kegger instead and made out with two guys(one who's engaged and another who probably dosne't know my name)
I think it might be better to date someone I actually KNOW, even if it means I'll have to face up and deal with my ex, whom I would like to remain friend with.....which what he said too, to bad he was apparently talking out his ass.

u are shit and u remind me of my ex , making out with 2 guys and one is even engaged , tell me , are you doing this to make you feel better or are you always like this?? , before your ex .

ps , (dint really mean the shit part but u are a slut)

CircleC · #12 (**permalink**) 31-10-05, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Late_vamp

u are shit and u remind me of my ex , making out with 2 guys and one is even engaged , tell me , are you doing this to make you feel better or are you always like this?? , before your ex .

ps , (dint really mean the shit part but u are a slut)

Yeah, I kind of agree. Why are you even bothering with relationships if all you want is to have fun with random guys?

whaywardj · #13 (**permalink**) 31-10-05, 09:32 AM

I'm not sure she realized "making out with two guys" would be such a traffic stopper and get horns to blowing. She's, probably, thinking of ways to back-peddle out of the remark.

CircleC · #14 (**permalink**) 31-10-05, 09:42 AM

Yeah, she hit a soft spot with me, LOL

Late_vamp · #15 (**permalink**) 31-10-05, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by whaywardj

I'm not sure she realized "making out with two guys" would be such a traffice stopper and get horns to blowing. She's, probably, thinking of ways to back-peddle out of the remark.

i hate whores , especially when their dumb whores ... lol , ,making out and the guy dint even know your name , you have one purpose in life and thats to be a chickenhead ... if u dont know what that is : its your description . now go and make sure to screw your boss , principal and relatives on your way out cuz you seem to be good at it .