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02-11-05, 07:06 AM
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| | | What do you think? Long story short:
I met a girl, we hit it off, we made out, we were flirting and talking alot about sex and then planning on have sex later. She came over and then stated she was a virgin and a bit worried about having sex and worried I was gonna be one of those guys who goes for one night stands and then ditch her.
So I didnt have sex with her in the end, we laid around, passed out together, made out and generally had a damn good time together.
She asked me many times for assurance that I don't go for one night stands and she was super worried that she wouldn't see me again. She's 18 and i'm 22. She says she feels a possible 'bond' with me and wants me to call her and see her again soon and that she told me she really wants to lose her virginity to me.
The night we met was saturday but I drove her home sunday night... should I call her, its been 2 days? Too soon? or wait a bit? I'm far from desperate, but i definately don't want to give that impression, worst case scenario right there.. but I would like to see her again.
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02-11-05, 07:11 AM
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| | | I think she sounds a bit Psyco. From Virgin to whore all in one foul swoop.
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02-11-05, 07:12 AM
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| | | Obviously she's the ones that is making the point about just being with her for sex. I would call her for a couple reasons.
One, to ease her mind becasue she's probably waiting to see if your really gonna call or not just in case you didn't mean what you said.
And second, because you can find out a lot more about her without coming off desperate.
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02-11-05, 07:13 AM
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| | | Don't analyze things so much...Make sure that she's ready before anything big happens and in the mean time just take things slow.
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02-11-05, 07:28 AM
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| | | I think she sounds like a nice girl who is worried you may not be interested unless she is willing to have sex with you, just like she said. Be a good guy and respect her boundaries. And yes, call her. | |
02-11-05, 07:33 AM
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| | | Call her right away! | |
02-11-05, 07:34 AM
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| | | so is tonight too early? or about right? | |
02-11-05, 07:35 AM
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| | | btw... she is a really nice girl, far from a psycho as someone mentioned above. | |
02-11-05, 07:36 AM
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| | | Ditto what Shh! said. What's the issue over a little tissue? What's the orgasm over a split-second muscle spasm? I'd put all things sexual on a back burner until it evolved out of things all on it's own; where she's sure of you, and you're sure you're not going to disappoint her for being sure.
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02-11-05, 07:39 AM
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| | | Call her. I love virgin hole. | |
02-11-05, 07:40 AM
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| | | She is not a virgin. She is lying.
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02-11-05, 07:48 AM
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| | agreed..good call btw  | |
02-11-05, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Only-virgins She is not a virgin. She is lying. aww, what's the matter, OV? Don't want anybody to spoil the idea that you're the last virgin on earth?
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02-11-05, 08:51 AM
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| | | Why does she want to lose her virginity to you? That's fine and all, just weird she would state it so soon since the two of you aren't even dating. | |
02-11-05, 09:44 AM
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