Texted her, now what?

[coffeecrazy]

Yeah man I think I have given up now. I've never liked a girl like I like this girl. She's different and she is all I can think about. I don't think i'll ever get over her. This has also put me off ever asking out a girl or even showing interest - at least that way i'll never be disappointed and i'll never get rejected.

[Asip4u]

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Originally Posted by coffeecrazy

Yeah man I think I have given up now. I've never liked a girl like I like this girl. She's different and she is all I can think about. I don't think i'll ever get over her. This has also put me off ever asking out a girl or even showing interest - at least that way i'll never be disappointed and i'll never get rejected.

Wrong attitude to have. I've been in exact same place few weeks ago. There's so much to learn not only from your own mistakes but also other peoples (just like misombra mentioned it) who have had same or even worse experiences. Trust me when i tell you, there's MANY girls out there that you'll hit it off with, just give it some time. Most importantly, work on those things that you need to improve. This is especially true when it comes to first impressions.

[Junsui]

You don't think you'll ever get over someone you never even dated? That really is the wrong attitude to have about this. Just because you don't show interest or ask another girl out doesn't mean you'll never be disappointed.

Yeah, it's fascinating isn't it? It's just because you spent so much time fantasizing and daydreaming about her that you fell "in love" with who you MADE HER out to be in your head. You don't even really know her - so it should be EASY to get over and move on. For all you know she could be a real witch!

You're infatuated with the imaginary character of her you created in your mind, not actually her.

[Asip4u]

Starting to sound like OV there. Imagine spending years and years trying to get one girl out of your mind. However perfect you think she is, just like everyone else, she has her flaws...Perhaps more then you'll ever know.

[coffeecrazy]

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Originally Posted by Tone

Yeah, it's fascinating isn't it? It's just because you spent so much time fantasizing and daydreaming about her that you fell "in love" with who you MADE HER out to be in your head. You don't even really know her - so it should be EASY to get over and move on. For all you know she could be a real witch!

You're infatuated with the imaginary character of her you created in your mind, not actually her.

haha! she's no witch I can tell you that. She really is the nicest person i've ever meet, sweet, kind, polite, funny, caring, and she's the most beautiful girl i've ever seen - which also makes me feel she wouldnt go out with me because i'm not exactly 'good looking' or popular I think i'm a nice person but that doesn't seem to get you anywhere in this world - everything is based on looks and popularity

[mini696]

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Originally Posted by coffeecrazy

She made a lot of eye contact and I saw her looking at me quite a lot but i'm probably just looking to deep into things.

And if she didn't do this you would think she was shy, yet still interested in you. We can twist anyones actions around to suit our own intentions.

[coffeecrazy]

Yep I know. I admit

[carpflounder]

You've got the stalker personality really bad, there youngster.

[coffeecrazy]

Of course I have?!

[coffeecrazy]

I can't help the way I feel about her, I don't follow her around - I dont even know were she lives

[carpflounder]

Why do you obcess so much? How old are you?

[coffeecrazy]

17 - nearly 18

[carpflounder]

Whats the furthest you've been.. 3rd base?

[Rosebud]

I thought this thread died a long time ago....