Bitterness

[DuckyWucky]

Ever like someone, but at times you feel bitter towards them when in all honesty, they've not been mean to you?

I was just thinking about this, and when I like a girl, if I notice she's flirting or even just talking to another guy I may get bitter towards her. It's just something that comes natural.

Most of the time I try to not show it, but sometimes I may. It could affect the little ways you act or things you say/lack thereof. I might get silent around the person and less talkative if I'm feeling bitter. Sometimes leading to that person saying, "What's wrong?" Then you saying, "Nothing."

I was at this party a week ago, and when this girl I like was approached by a drunk guy trying to get her number, I got a little upset about that. Not like sad, but bitter. I guess because she started to have a little convo. with him, and she walked over to meet his friends after this drunk assclown suggested to do so.

Now she was just being friendly because she's a very sweet girl, but I guess the principle of it all is what got me uneasy. Even though I know she didn't really care to meet them.

I notice too that once you confess your feelings for someone that you can feel that way. That being if the person doesn't feel the same way. You think to yourself, "I'd give anything to have this person, but they don't care for me in the same way."

They could care less about having you in a relationship. It's almost as if you want what you can't have, and it would be so much easier if that person liked you back. But they don't. Thus making you bitter towards them. Kinda like, "What don't I have?Why won't you just like me! That's all you have to do, just like me..." (Insert crying here)

It's a fine line between that and jealousy I guess. I suppose everyone gets jealous. It's just the difference between how much you show it that might seperate someone from the obvious jealous person.

I'm not trying to make this thread about how you should tell a girl/guy you like them so you wouldn't have to see that and blah blah blah. I'm just focusing on the topic of bitterness towards ones you can't have, and ones you have yet to find out. Giving a different situation for every time you feel that way.

Anyways I'm done rambling.

[aaahhh]

yea i kno what u mean... I was extremely bitter for a while toward this girl whom i fell really hard for. She was the 1st girl i actually confess all my feelings to. It took me like 4 months to get over her and half of the time i was extremely bitter eventhough i didn't show it when i'm around her. She was the only girl whom i truly thought i would give up everything to have at the time (i had very lil self confident). I kept a journal online... everytime im sad or pissed i just talk a lot of shit about her on my journal. Of course i didn't let any 1 know about it but somehow she found it and read everything. She didn't mention anything about it but i later foudn out that shes been reading it. I felt really bad and wrote her a letter to apologize and explained to her that it was written only out of anger and frustration.

Yea it sucks loving some1 who doesn't feel the same for you. You can't really make some1 like you, it'll have to come naturally. Of course, there are lil things you can do to help increase your chances but what its all come down to is if they don't like you... theres nothing you can do. Accept and move on.... I learned this the hard way

[msunderstood20]

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Originally posted by DuckyWucky
I notice too that once you confess your feelings for someone that you can feel that way. That being if the person doesn't feel the same way. You think to yourself, "I'd give anything to have this person, but they don't care for me in the same way."

They could care less about having you in a relationship. It's almost as if you want what you can't have, and it would be so much easier if that person liked you back. But they don't. Thus making you bitter towards them. Kinda like, "What don't I have?Why won't you just like me! That's all you have to do, just like me..." (Insert crying here)

I know exactly what you are saying. The funny thing is I was thinking about the same thing this morning. I always wonder why things have to be so difficult. If everyone just liked the same people things what be so much easier, right? I really hate it too, and it does make you bitter towards that person. Even if you don't want to be, you just are. Sometimes I really hate dating...