So in love with two! Please give me some advice. - Love Forum

Kat · #1 (**permalink**) 01-12-01, 11:48 PM

I don't know what to do! I'm not with anyone right now, but I've been best friends with this guy for a little over four years now, and we both want to be more than friends. He's a great guy, very sweet makes me feel good, and loves me too, but he lives miles away and plus he's going even farther this fall for college, I want to be with him and i love him. However about nine months ago I met this other guy thats really great, and he wants to be more than friends also. This guy lives right down the street, But he seems kind of bossy sometimes however I still like him a lot and even think I'm in love with him. I don't know who I want or what to do. I would like to be in a relationship but with who?

Illusional · #2 (**permalink**) 02-12-01, 04:42 PM

with the first guy, your biggest problem is that he is moving way for college. this almost 90 percent of the time doesn't work. i would just stay friends with him because there is no sense getting into a relationship that will most definately bring about more problems.

the second guy? he is a little bossy but if you can handle it, then give it a try. you have nothing to lose. raverboy

AnGeL_StEpHy · #3 (**permalink**) 02-12-01, 05:36 PM

[color=deeppink:d05848f070]yep for a fact that most long distance relationships dont work. my friend and another friend of mine were sorta seeing each other but the distance between them got them thinking if it was worth it.. it's up to u if u wanna go for the relationship where the distance is a factor or someone who's bossy. [/color:d05848f070] [quote:d05848f070]dont be w/ the person u can live w/, but be w/ the person u cant live without[/quote:d05848f070]

joseph · #4 (**permalink**) 03-12-01, 10:57 AM

[quote:75f2a53c9e]dont be w/ the person u can live w/, but be w/ the
person u cant live without[/quote:75f2a53c9e]

Kat, Make your decision wisely. [b:75f2a53c9e]Be with the one you can't live without with.[/b:75f2a53c9e]

mr fark · #5 (**permalink**) 03-12-01, 06:59 PM

close your eyes and think of love. the 1st image that pops out: that would be it!

MVPlaya · #6 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 09:02 AM

How old are you? You have all the time in the world. What's the rush?