I think casual dating is fine, but I don't suuggest sleeping with any of them until you've narrowed them down. How else will you know if you REALLY like them if you don't date them?
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I've got this problem that is entirely knew to me. All semester long I've been hopin a guy would ask me out, but no! I even had to approached a guy once. Anyways, I was asked out like twice the whole semester, then now, in the last week of the semester, I have no lie gotten eight guys numbers. WTF?! Anyways, I've only hung out with a few of them a little bit, none of them are in the stages of going any where yet. But would it be so wrong to date a few of them until I got serious with one?? Guys- how would you feel if a girl you were into was casually dating several guys, even if you guys were just casually dating too. Sorry if this was confusing or stupid, but I'm little torn myself right now. Comments appreciated.
p.s. I'm not bragging about the amount of numbers I got, most of the guys I talk to the most are the ones that aren't reguarlly talked to by other people... I can just associate with them more.
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I think casual dating is fine, but I don't suuggest sleeping with any of them until you've narrowed them down. How else will you know if you REALLY like them if you don't date them?
My friend Sandra has 4 boyfriends. I don't know how she does it..but she does. It can be done.
4 b/f's, carp? do they all know? lol...IMO, it's slutty to do that shygirl...You are putting an image as a girl who's screwing around even if that isn't the case. Better to date one person at a time.
-To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings
I don't think it's wrong to date differnet guys... But not all at once. Not to mention keep track of everyone and what they like and so on....
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
As long as these guys realize that your not exclusive with any of them...then its ok. But yeah.....I would pick one before sleeping with any of them.
Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....
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I think dating more than one is shitty, slutty, and shows where we are going as a society.

^^^yea that.Originally Posted by Blazin Trav
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size="3">"Melodies are meant to be minimal. If life was found to be a simple accident would it make it any less beautiful? I would say no." -Melodic Cure(OV).
there was once a time when i had 3 guys courting me. that was awesome.
my general rule: if i can't hold you down, you can't hold me down either.
I like that rule misombra. Interesting to see how some of you assume that to be dating someone is to be f*cking them. Are you really trying to say that one shouldn't date unless she is prepared to f*ck?
Everyone has seemed to miss the part about being FRIENDS before anything, including dating.. whatever happened to getting to know someone without any kind of romantic attachement?
How is it slutty if she isn't sleeping with any of them?Originally Posted by Blazin Trav
I agree with what Vashti has already said.
where we're going?Originally Posted by Blazin Trav
Wouldn't that be great though!Originally Posted by vashti
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Yeah, great for you, but wait until your daughters get a little older.
:-)