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06-12-05, 10:30 AM
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| | | it is hard to date ugly people i met a great girl, who is interested in a lot of the things i am interested in, she is very open and fun to hang out with. but wow, looks wise she is like a 2 or 3 out of 10. It is really hard to want to be physical with her. i feel really shallow. And i dont know how well this is going to work if im not physically attracted to her.   | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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06-12-05, 10:31 AM
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06-12-05, 10:46 AM
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| | | i think if u like her than u should look beyond her appearence... but i know it's hard.. u just have decide for u'rself if u'r willing to accept her even tho she looks like that
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06-12-05, 11:11 AM
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| | | 18. yeah, i always thought that i would be one of those guys able to look beyond looks, and in the past i have. In the past some of my friend would ask me how i was able to date/kiss an ex GF, and i guess the fact that i liked them enabled me to get past looks. I think its just that now there is so much to over come, so many faults, its a shame.
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06-12-05, 11:54 AM
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| | | Personally I feel there is nothing shallow about not dating someone cuz your not physically attracted to them. physical attraction is just as important as anything else. I do know though a lot of times you get to know someone and you click so well personality wise, that it literally alters the way you look at them...so someone you wouldn't normally find attractive suddenly becomes beautiful. On the other hand if there really is no physical attraction...there is no point in forcing it.
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06-12-05, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by BFTrick i met a great girl, who is interested in a lot of the things i am interested in, she is very open and fun to hang out with. but wow, looks wise she is like a 2 or 3 out of 10. It is really hard to want to be physical with her. i feel really shallow. And i dont know how well this is going to work if im not physically attracted to her. Exactly how attractive would someone find you to be? Because I often see males holding out for someone in the 8-10 range when they, themselves, aren't so hot. | |
06-12-05, 12:15 PM
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| | | Well, hang out with her as a friend then. No one says she has to become your girlfriend or that you've got to kiss her.
Just be friends and be happy that you met someone you like and get along with! | |
06-12-05, 01:17 PM
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| | | yeah that would have been the smart move to make, however, i kinda already asked her out. i didnt think about the physical part, all i was thiking about was how well we clicked personality wise. luckily im sick so i can get out of the kissing part for now, imwondering wether i should call this off early or not. | |
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| | | it's totally true what they say...beauty is in the eye of the beholder...with that in mind, i believe the right person for someone is someone who is not only attractive as a person but also attractive physically...
don't force it if it's not there... | |
06-12-05, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by vashti Exactly how attractive would someone find you to be? Because I often see males holding out for someone in the 8-10 range when they, themselves, aren't so hot. I see that too. | |
06-12-05, 08:47 PM
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| | | so you asked her out you must've had some attraction toward her.
did anybody tell you that she wasn't that pretty? that sometimes influences young lads like yourself. | |
06-12-05, 09:59 PM
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| | | Her looks may grow on you. You will probably expand your idea of beauty. It is part of growing up. | |
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| | | Vashti----So....when we grow up, we get less picky? or we start settling? :-P | |
06-12-05, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted by vashti Her looks may grow on you. Yeah, like a fungus!
Didn't you hear? She's Ugly!!
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