She keeps asking me out ...

[fred_wilson]

I started a relationship with a woman about 2 years ago and for no reason at all really we just stopped seeing each other after a few months (busy with our final years in university etc).

Over the last year and a half or so she has asked me out every few months and sometimes I give in and go out with her (most of the time she has friends come along or we go to a party etc).

Sometimes her intention is to become intimate with me which is great because I'd like to have a relationship with her. This results in us seeing each other and going out for a few weeks until she tells me that she only wishes to see me once a month or so (but tells me she loves me etc). However, sometimes when she asks me out to a party or with friends I try to be intimate with her and she turns rather nasty, telling me that she only asked me out as a friend which makes me look (and feel) like a total fool.

Now if this had some sort of pattern to it, I could possibly make sense of it but it doesnt seem to. It just seems to be random. One time it will be rejection ... another time it will be intimate.

When we do get together and we are starting to get really close after a few weeks she pushes me away again (with the "once a month or so" routine) and the whole cycle begins again.

Am I missing something here? What is she really doing?

(A womans perspective would be greatly appreciated

[Late_vamp]

shes just playing with you , you should just see it as a hobby , a pass time ... dont really think about her .

[Tone]

You already posted this.