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15-12-05, 03:46 AM
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16-12-05, 03:22 AM
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| | | Lol, I know I used to live in a fraternity. Me+20 guys=seeing/hearing lots of low down things.
The update: After one killer midterm went to the bar to meet up with our mutual friend (MF)and gave him a call . When I got there "the dude" showed up and we all hungout for the rest of the night and went to a party. I wanted to dance and he said he wouldnt dance with me.
Me: "Hey, let's dance!"
The Dude: "I can't MF is here and he'll get upset"
Me: "What!?!? I'm not his property..."
The Dude: "I know, but he's only going to be here for one more week and I don't want him to get upset"
Me: ***evil stare at MF for the rest of the night***
MF ends up geting angry at some dude i'm dacing with and storms off leaving the party | |
16-12-05, 03:24 AM
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| | | why would MF get upset? did i not read a post? i didn't think there was anything between you and MF...i thought this was about you and MF's friend...? | |
16-12-05, 03:50 AM
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Originally Posted by funsounds why would MF get upset? did i not read a post? i didn't think there was anything between you and MF...i thought this was about you and MF's friend...?
You read it perfectly right. I have no clue what's going on and why MF has any effect on anything. We do always hangout and people think we're dating, but we're not. But he tends to get on the ranging angry side if I don't focus my attention on him. Which SUCKS and makes me kinda happy he's leaving. 6 days.... | |
16-12-05, 04:03 AM
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Originally Posted by 60slek You read it perfectly right. I have no clue what's going on and why MF has any effect on anything. We do always hangout and people think we're dating, but we're not. But he tends to get on the ranging angry side if I don't focus my attention on him. Which SUCKS and makes me kinda happy he's leaving. 6 days.... firstly...MF probably wants you, i'm guessing...
secondly...MF's friend has no right to be angry as long as you're not dancing way too slutty with the guy. i mean, it's just a dance! he can't expect you to not dance...that's odd. i know when i go to the club with my girl...she likes dancing a LOT more than i do...so i'll dance with her half the night, but some of the time she'll be dancing with her girlfriends or some guy will come up to her and dance a few songs. she always keeps them in check. it's no big deal at all. MF's friend sounds a little possessive or insecure or something. | |
16-12-05, 04:10 AM
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Originally Posted by funsounds firstly...MF probably wants you, i'm guessing...
secondly...MF's friend has no right to be angry as long as you're not dancing way too slutty with the guy. i mean, it's just a dance! he can't expect you to not dance...that's odd. i know when i go to the club with my girl...she likes dancing a LOT more than i do...so i'll dance with her half the night, but some of the time she'll be dancing with her girlfriends or some guy will come up to her and dance a few songs. she always keeps them in check. it's no big deal at all. MF's friend sounds a little possessive or insecure or something.
It wasn't "the dude" who got mad it was MF. We had our time together like 2 years ago and I'm sure as hell not going back there. He's now a good friend that apparently has jealously issues when it comes to me and it's interferring with my personal relationships too much.  | |
16-12-05, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted by 60slek It wasn't "the dude" who got mad it was MF. We had our time together like 2 years ago and I'm sure as hell not going back there. He's now a good friend that apparently has jealously issues when it comes to me and it's interferring with my personal relationships too much. ah i see...well, at least he's leaving. but if it were me, i can't bottle things up, i'd have to talk it out! be like, "what the f?!?!?! what's your problem? we're done...i can dance with whoever i want and you have ZERO right to get upset. are my friend or not?"
but i'm a very confrontational person...that's just me... | |
16-12-05, 04:46 AM
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| | | I'm a bottler. Especially with him and it always ends up turing into some huge fight which I don't want to have right now since he is leaving, but I wish "the dude" would act a little differently. When we're one on one he's all for me then when we're with MF he takes a backseat. It would be one thing if he didn't want MF to know, but he doesn't care that he knows.
I think it's because I'm a very touchy feely person. | |
16-12-05, 06:33 AM
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| | | oh well, MF will be gone very soon then you get touchy feely! | |
16-12-05, 12:02 PM
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| | | his name doesn't happen to be chris is it? | |
16-12-05, 01:11 PM
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| | | lol, not at all. im working with a p-name and an m-name | |
23-12-05, 04:29 PM
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| | | it's been a while but here's the newest update:
"the dude" totally changed his behavior to seemingly disinterested, but occasionally would act the way he did before as long as MF wasn't around
once again the 3 of us were hanging out together and MF freaks when im leaving and keeps saying im leaving with "the dude" but i wasn't. i was taking a cab home
the dude suddenly says to MF " we talked about this. i told you in the strictest of confidence what happened between us (me and the dude).
my ears perk up so when leaving the dude comes out side to wait for my cab with me so i ask what he meant and i dont get why he's changed and he says nothing then goes on to say MF told him about our past. so i tell him that was years ago and doesn't matter. and he says nothing has changed and that we'll talk when he gets back into town. (early jan)
a few days later i ask mf what they talked about/why they were talkiong about me and he said that it must have been when they were drinking and he got jealous because he thought the dude wouldnt be able to spend as much time with him before he left if he was with me.
so now i have no clue if the dude is interested and backed off for his friend or if he's not at all  | |
24-12-05, 07:08 AM
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| | | Yikes! Sounds kind of messy.
You just gotta wait this one out. You won't know anything for sure until MF is out of town. (by the way, can we give them names cuz MF and dude are confusing me) | |
24-12-05, 07:17 AM
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| | | i know a couple friends that have a rule to NEVER get involved with exs of friends or friends exs...period. probably a good rule in most cases. | |
24-12-05, 10:04 PM
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| | | names: mark (aka MF) and paul (his friend)
and maybe it's just me but i wouldn't count dating for 3 months at all involved with each other. it was a brief 3 month-ish period where i really liked him and he in the end wanted to do his own thing so i said "peace".
now i feel like i got out of some 2 year realtionship and trying to move on with his bestfriend after a day.
good news, even though i miss him like crazy, mark is gone for good
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