Guy asking a Girl older then him out?????? - Love Forum

jordantheking · #1 (**permalink**) 20-12-05, 11:01 AM

So are girls interested in guys younger then em. like 2 grades??

and how would the guy get the girls attention and what would be the best way to start the conversation... if you go to the same school and all? thanks.

sexy_kuta · #2 (**permalink**) 20-12-05, 11:34 AM

depends on the girls..

my ex was two years older than me. im 15 and shes 17, it didnt really effect us much but i knew it was gonna later on.. i think its alright if the both of u are 18.. cuz when ur 18 your gonna meet alot of ppl, new ppl and interesting ppl.. then she might hurt you there, just becareful.

Late_vamp · #3 (**permalink**) 20-12-05, 12:27 PM

you reminded me of my early HS years when everybody thought i was 16 but i was 13 in fact and some older girls were after me .

whatever you do , DONT lie to her about it , if she thinks your older she might go out with you, but once she knows the truth she will most probably back away ... if you start off without lies , then she will not be dissapointed at you ...

plus ... wouldnt she see your books that are from math 3 instead of math 5 ?!?!

sexy_kuta · #4 (**permalink**) 20-12-05, 12:34 PM

haha i lied to mine at first trust me.. i got lucky thats all i would say

i look like 19ish but im really 15, i was the one kid who had facial hair like grade 6..

but i told her like 2 weeks into dating and wow i felt like crap.. i did it for a good reason though. i wanted to get with her... but it was pointless if i look at it..

just be real as you can..

clynn · #5 (**permalink**) 20-12-05, 03:58 PM

My bf is 3 years younger than me.

Late_vamp · #6 (**permalink**) 20-12-05, 11:42 PM

after a certain age , it doesnt matter anymore , when your in HS , 3 years is a BIG gap ... difference between being able to go out and having a kid watching cartoons after school .

Rosebud · #7 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 03:24 AM

A general rule of mine is that I don't date younger men. Men mature slower than woman and for that reason for me to stay interested I need someone around the same maturity level as myself.

#8 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 03:39 AM

So you wouldn't date me??

Rosebud · #9 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 03:40 AM

I thought you were my age? and even still your a little more mature then most!

#10 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 03:41 AM

I'm 23

;P

Rosebud · #11 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 03:47 AM

Oh!...LOL even still, your a differnet story!!

#12 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 03:54 AM

Thanks RoseB.

bluesummer · #13 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 05:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rosebud

A general rule of mine is that I don't date younger men. Men mature slower than woman and for that reason for me to stay interested I need someone around the same maturity level as myself.

Same for me. Actually, they need to be considerably older.

clynn · #14 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 05:18 AM

I've dated both.

Now the younger man I'm dating is more responsible and mature than I am (I've regressed rather than matured as I've aged!!!). Besides, I like someone to feel young with.

jordantheking · #15 (**permalink**) 21-12-05, 06:14 AM

cool

i coulnt lie beacuase shes seen me around and school small and all she would know. but i just havnt talked to her. All i got is hey or hi dont know what to say after, any help? plus she is super beautiful!!!