does she think she is still gay?

[charliebrown32]

my girlfriend was a lesbian and dated women for 7 years. she fell for a man (me , god only knows why lol) and we have been dating for a year and a half and plan on getting married. she has a rainbow tattoo on her back and the other day at a party someone asked her about her sexual orientation. she said she didnt know????

should i be worried that she said she is in love with me and wants to marry me. but does not know if she is is gay or bi or straight?

[Tone]

Uh - I'd definately talk to her about it if I were you...

Ask her what made her respond like that (uncertainty).

[clynn]

Some people think that they fall in love with a person regardless of their sex. So, right now she is in love with you, and you just so happen to be a man. Could be that is her point of view.

[TenorTwo]

Clynn may be right, but I'd take Tone's suggestion. It might be safe to leave alone, it might not be.

[Mishanya]

Maybe she was just trying to avoid that someone

[NeoSeminole]

what does it matter if she is bi or not? She is in love with you. If you are worried of her leaving you for another woman, I would say the chances are equally high (or low) of her cheating on you with another man.

[funsounds]

thats hot...that's a threesome waiting to happen...

[Rosebud]

Quote:

Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

what does it matter if she is bi or not? She is in love with you.

My opinion as well.

[vashti]

I agree with neo (for once).
:-)

[Hugo Pickle]

Modern Psychology is kind of two faced in this regard. My teacher for psychology at college is a practicing therapist in town and said the following in class.

All fetuses are inherently female, it is the introduction of testosterone that makes them male. She stated that there are chemical signatures for some male homosexuals that are closer to a females than to a males, but she has never seen a females chemical signature anywhere close to what a males is. She believes that no woman is completely gay. She believes that all gay women are bi but choose certain partners (male and female) based on other psychological issues. To back up her belief she stated the many surveys and questioners of woman from all types that state who they would and not have sex with. Her example was that 99.9 percent of all woman said that they would sleep with Brad Pitt. Even supposedly gay women said that they would sleep with Brad Pitt.

That’s what she said and it kind of goes along with what I have seen. But honestly I have never stayed too long in contact with gay and lesbian women. But I have had many encounters with them were they will have sex and stuff with males but then claim that they are not attracted to them. I know ****ed up eh. That’s why I never stayed around them for too long. You can’t raise the bullshit flag because the will constantly deny plain facts like “if you are gay then why do you sleep with men.”

Realize that there is a lot of personal psychological things in play and it is not something that they want to talk about with you usually. It is like your just a dick that they play with and the more you talk the worse it is for you. Just use her up man and if she wants to leave **** it, not much you can do.

[vashti]

I don't think your teacher is correct. You are talking about the physiological development of gonads, but it is the brain scan of homosexual people that is slightly different than straight people, not their genitalia.

[Mishanya]

I have an isolationist theory. Put a gay male and a gay female on a deserted island. After a few years there are high chances that they will find a way to mate

Hey, I think I just came up with an idea for a reality TV show!!! Damn, I should work for a TV station...