let go?

[lilwing89]

god it is going so great with her. so great cept one thing.. she like doesnt talk to me at school. at all. she wont talk to me but she talks to my brother at school?? whatsup with that?
i dont know... you know we arent even really dating.. i just say she is my gf cuase its so much easier than saying 'that one girl that ive known for a really long time which, technically, our relationship is a fwb thing'... well yea. cept for account of one thing, we tell eachother we love eachother(always initiated by me)
and i really dont like that. i dont like the fact that she wont talk to me at school..and i dont like the fact that it seems to be going down the 'fwb' road.. i havent asked her aobut it but hell im gonna.
and i dont like the fact that i always start the 'i love you's and whenever i try to talk to her about all this she gets all bitchy.

i dont think she likes me as much as she says she does.. now isnt that how you would feel?

i just feel..like she is embarrassed about me...

[Rosebud]

Aww Lilwing! I'm sorry! yea I think it's good you talk to her but even if she didn't say what you want to hear, would you still stick around and do the same things?

[lilwing89]

yes ofcourse i would stick around and do the same things.. but after i throw a tantrum lol.
i would go crying back to her and she prolly wouldnt want me back..

im talking to her right now and idk how it is going she got all mad cause im 'accusing' her of things..

[Rosebud]

NO NO Your not supposed to do that!! LOL

Aww, just tell her how you want to be exclusive with her and you would like to know how she feels about that?

[lilwing89]

lol..well i told her exactly that. no response yet..

[Rosebud]

Well don't push her... but I would definetly start thinking about what you might do in the future if she really doesn't want to be in a relationship hun!

[funsounds]

don't get played...be the playa...

[vashti]

Quote:

Originally Posted by funsounds

don't get played...be the playa...

Bad advice. Don't do either.

Lilwing, you are a young. There will be other girls in your future who will not try to keep your relationship a secret, but rather would be proud to be seen with you. Don't you want that for yourself? I certainly want that for you! Your relationship with this girl is preventing you from connecting to other girls who may value you more. Don't sell yourself short.

[Debunkt]

She's not worth it, lilwing. If she can't be proud of you, you shouldn't be of her, its definitely a big flaw. And if you're the one always saying "i love you", she doesn't feel the same way, and believe me, you likely don't actually truly feel that way either. I mean you say you're just a fwb, and if thats all she wants, there's no telling that she's exclusive to you. And well, none of this actually sounds like a loving, genuine relationship, and never really has to me. Move on and find someone more worth your time, like vashti said. We all get very attached to those we first have sexual activity with, but you need to let this one go.

[Tone]

I know like 9 LF members are just WAITING to say "I told you so!!!" to poor lil wang...

:[

[Late_vamp]

I told you so !!!

Ugghh LiL wang , u never listen .

[lilwing89]

she thinks it is stupid to be exclusive, rosebud, how stupid is that?

[Tone]

Why do you waste your time, and go through such unnecessary stress and frustration over someone who is so immature, and who's feelings for you are so shaky she's more concerned with how others think than claim you as her boyfriend? Or even acknowledge you out in public for that matter...

[Junsui]

You're the only guy she's been with sexually?

[lilwing89]

yea



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