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18-01-06, 02:55 AM
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| | | He's Perfect, except... So I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and he is everything that I am looking for... or everything that I thought I was looking for. He is smart, good looking, fun, a gentleman, and we have a lot of common interests, but something seems to be missing. He is the type of guy I can be very very good friends with, but I'm not sure there are any real feelings there. I am attracted to him and would love to give him a chance, but is it likely that my feelings will change? I tend to give up on the nice guys too fast and give the bad guys too many chances. Often after giving up on the "nice guy" I regret it and feel like there was something there after all, when it is too late. I don't want that to happen again, but at what point do you decide to be just friends? | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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18-01-06, 03:10 AM
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| | | It's only been three weeks; unless he's hideously ugly, what's the harm in giving it more time?
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18-01-06, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted by PTC03 I don't want that to happen again, but at what point do you decide to be just friends? do you really have to decide? i'd say, you ought to feel what he is to you. | |
18-01-06, 03:38 AM
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| | | hawt damn, what is it with girls? I swear they are mentally challenged. You will never hear a guy say "I'm just not attracted to her b/c she's not bitchy enough for me." Girls seem to throw reason out the window and prefer the bad guys. | |
18-01-06, 03:54 AM
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| | | If only reason played a bigger role! Then there'd be no problem! I think part of my problem is fear. It's easier to date someone when I know they aren't expecting commitment... This new guy keeps making references to meeting his friends and family already, which should be exciting, but its scary as hell to me! I wish I could just go with it! | |
18-01-06, 04:02 AM
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18-01-06, 04:09 AM
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Originally Posted by PTC03 This new guy keeps making references to meeting his friends and family already, which should be exciting, but its scary as hell to me! I wish I could just go with it! no wonder you are scared! tell him to slow down a bit, there's nothing wrong with you for not wanting to meet his parents after so little time.
this doesn't seem to be a nice guy/bad guy problem, but a pushy guy problem. | |
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18-01-06, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Lloyd95 How old are you? 22 year old | |
18-01-06, 04:38 PM
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| | | well lloyd, 3 weeks isn't a very long time for a girl to decide if she likes a guy if she already has had sex with him. doesn't it make you wonder??
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18-01-06, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted by NeoSeminole hawt damn, what is it with girls? I swear they are mentally challenged. You will never hear a guy say "I'm just not attracted to her b/c she's not bitchy enough for me." Girls seem to throw reason out the window and prefer the bad guys. You know, I have been agreeing with you lately. 
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18-01-06, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by PTC03 If only reason played a bigger role! Then there'd be no problem! I think part of my problem is fear. It's easier to date someone when I know they aren't expecting commitment... This new guy keeps making references to meeting his friends and family already, which should be exciting, but its scary as hell to me! I wish I could just go with it! Were do you live? What country I mean?
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18-01-06, 05:00 PM
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| | | If he wants you to meet friends/family who don't live with him or just so happen to be in town within 3 weeks - run.
The End.
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18-01-06, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Cybog If he wants you to meet friends/family who don't live with him or just so happen to be in town within 3 weeks - run.
The End. I usually take my dates home to meet my mom on the first date. Is this a bad thing? 
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18-01-06, 11:09 PM
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