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Old 02-02-06, 01:11 PM
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What should I Do??????
I have a dilema I have this guy i am totally interested in and he is interested in me he is cureently away overseas for another 4 weeks but when he gets back we are officially going to date. My problem is my best friend has just told be she is in love with him and cant stop thinking about him and wants t be with him i find it kinda weird now cos i am totally besotted in this guy and as ive had a few tough years i am currently 6 months pregnant with my ex fiancees baby and this new guy has been there for me and im not willing to let him go but my friend bothers me i feel like now i cant trust her to be with him by herself. I know he wouldnt do anything but my friend well she already has done 2 of my good mates and i kno she will try something i dont want to loose her friendship i just need to know how i can live with my best friend knowing that she is interested in the guy i wanna be with? She has also told me she is jealous of me cos i can be friends with a guy without sleeping with them but she sleeps with any guy she meets. she is also getting defensive towards me as i let her meet my good friend jarad they met and he slept with her the firs ttime they met and now my friend jarad has been weird towards me i dont want her to think every guy she meets she has to sleep with them but i dont want her ging after the guy i really like what is something i can do or say to her to just tell her that im not gonna let her take my guy from me etc . This guy likes me heaps and doesnt even know she is interested in him should i tell him or not? or should i just keave it be and hopefully she doesnt try anything?
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Old 02-02-06, 01:18 PM
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I think you should talk to your friend about it, not the guy. Tell her how you feel, offer to help her make guy "friends". Especially since it sounds like she kind of uses guys, or just likes them for a little bit, sleeps with them, and maybe forgets them, you should let her know that what you have with him is something lasting that, as your friend, she shouldn't want to destroy.
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You should have a serious talk with your friend and tell her what is bothering you. Say that you don't like her going after your guy and if she respects you as a friend, she should stop. If she doesn't stop, she's not worth being a friend with. If she keeps going after your guy and he doesn't notice anything, then you should tell your guy that you're uncomfortable when he spends time with your friend because she likes him.
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