Update! She Called.....it wasn't good

[Tone]

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Originally Posted by HurtDude

I'm not really trying to ellicit pity or attention or anything like that by posting here.

Bullshit.

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Originally Posted by HurtDude

I appreciate the advice. And believe me I am taking it. I am letting her go.

BULLSHIT.

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Originally Posted by HurtDude

Yes, i miss her, and I probably still love her. But I would never take her back.

BULLSHIT!

[Robbo]

"I cant bring myself to accept the first possibility, which admittedly is the most probable one."

You cant accept it because you have given yourself the second possibility to keep your hopes alive that you two may get back together. Even after all this Bullshit.

Like I said before, sounds pathetic, immature, cut yourself loose for your own sake.

[HurtDude]

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Originally Posted by Tone

Bullshit.


BULLSHIT.


BULLSHIT!

Look, just don't post in my thread anymore. Writing here gives me a place to vent so that I don't occupy my mind when I am doing other things like studying. so if you want to be an *******, keep telling me what I write is bullshit. I havent initiated contact in over a month, I think thats saying alot about my intentions of letting her go, so please, keep to yourself buddy.

Robbo, yes I know what you mean. As you can see I'm a very rational person, and I'm willing to admit that of course part of you hangs on to hope. But my hope isn't that she will return, its that she still cares and thinks about me the way i think about her.

[Robbo]

Yes, this I can see.

However, what im trying to make you see is this:

You hope that she still cares about you and thinks about you, so where could this lead? To what end do you believe this and where do you think it could go in the future?

I dont know you personally so I cant say that if she came back to you tomorrow after this guy has finished her wanting to be with you again you would welcome her with arms wide open.

But thats how it seems...and it shouldnt.

[HurtDude]

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Originally Posted by Robbo

Yes, this I can see.

However, what im trying to make you see is this:

You hope that she still cares about you and thinks about you, so where could this lead? To what end do you believe this and where do you think it could go in the future?

I dont know you personally so I cant say that if she came back to you tomorrow after this guy has finished her wanting to be with you again you would welcome her with arms wide open.

But thats how it seems...and it shouldnt.

I see your point. I've mentioned earlier in this thread that I'd have a much easier time moving on if I knew she still wanted me in some way. Its wierd, but, I can walk away and forget girls if they still want me after the breakup.

This one doesn't seem to care and already has a new boyfriend. so its tough.

[HurtDude]

If you're going to respond to this with:MOVE ON. or BULLSHIT.or DIE THREAD...then dont bother replying..the best way to show me you don't care is not to respond.

for those of you who do care...

I feel like I am not doing a good job of moving on, because too much of me is holding on to hope. Holding on to the hope that one day she is going to wake up next to the new guy and realize she was only after his looks (hes very good looking according to my girlfriends but he and I are a close match they say so I'm not too worried). Maybe she'll wake up and realize that she misses me and call me. Maybe she'll just get a rush of "i miss him" and do something impulsive and text me....does stuff like that happen???

Maybe shes too distracted with the new guy to realize that im not there....

[Rosebud]

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Originally Posted by HurtDude

Haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks. The last conversation we had ended like this: "i think you and i will be together in the future but for now i just want to date and stuff and not have a serious boyfriend. Anyways i have to run i dont know when i am going to call you but i know that ill call you"

3 weeks later...(today)

She calls....i pick up.

Considering this was posted on 1-31-06... it has not been a month! Whether you have initiated contact or not. The reason people aren't believing you or not wanting to post anymore is because your not taking anyone's advice about what to do. Granted, I'm glad you can vent but what do you expect us to say? We have told you to do other things to get your mind off her and what do you do? You come on here and continue to post about how you want her to want you back so you can get over her...MOVE ON! Stop thinking about it and trying to figure out ways to analyze everything. She has moved on and she has hurt you several times and is continuing to do so until you let her go 100%. Why do you conitnue to hurt yourself by thinking about it?

[Tone]

Don't waste your time, RoseB - he doesn't want to hear the honest truth of things - he is just looking for what he wants to hear - which is reassurance.

"Yeah maybe she WILL start to miss you and call you!"

"Yeah maybe in a couple months she will come back to you!"

We can't help him because you can't help someone who doesn't want to help themself.

[Rosebud]

Yea I know I just had to say my piece so before I really left this thread for the last time!

[Gigabitch]

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Originally Posted by HurtDude

Yes. I am going to forget that she exists.

If i block her number...what will she get when she calls? A message saying shes been blocked? or what?

I want to walk out of her life without actually slamming doors in her face...i want her to wake up one day and realize that she lost me......

Don't block that number- don't feed the drama. Move on... and pity Jacob.

[HurtDude]

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Don't block that number- don't feed the drama. Move on... and pity Jacob.

Whats this? a post NOT critizing me and making me feel like an attention whore? is that even possible on this forum???

Thanks giga, you're rright that would only make her think "oh he must be pissed haha im having an effect on him still"

so anyways, im doing a bit better..and *sometimes* i think of her and wonder how your feelings can change overnight.

[Robbo]

*Mnarghhhghgh, cough, cough, clears throat, enagages Yoda Voice*

"Mmmmm, long way to go you have I think, much fear in you sense I do."

Clever fella

[HurtDude]

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Originally Posted by Robbo

*Mnarghhhghgh, cough, cough, clears throat, enagages Yoda Voice*

"Mmmmm, long way to go you have I think, much fear in you sense I do."

Clever fella

Right, lol.