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03-03-06, 07:23 AM
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| | | Uni Girl I just had my first day at uni, and the most amazing girl took my eye.
I kind of have the same problem as a previous post. She in my lecture class and we have 3 more years together, and we will eventually pair up in prac class, for massages. But the thing is I dont really want to ask her out know or act to confronting because we will spend time together and dont want weirdness between us. I dont think she knows anyone in class and neither do I. I dont have much confidence meeting people so help me please. I have always wondered how do ask them if the have a boyfriend.
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03-03-06, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted by owen206 I have always wondered how do ask them if the have a boyfriend.
thaks Make small talk for a bit and then say, "so... are you seeing anyone?"... | |
03-03-06, 07:39 AM
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Originally Posted by shh! Make small talk for a bit and then say, "so... are you seeing anyone?"...
I've always actually wondered about this approach. How do most girls perceive it? I mean, to me, it seems like it's an obvious and blatant attempt to find out if they're available and a way to make your intentions/desires about possibly dating them very clear. Doesn't that seem pretty direct? Or are most people oblivious to that kind of thing, and I just overanalayze stuff? | |
03-03-06, 07:44 AM
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| | | What is wrong with being direct? You will find out right away whether or not she is available for dating...
Of course, I am assuming the conversation preceding would be very friendly and open. If she doesn't seem to want to talk or appears uncomfortable, isn't smiling, etc. then it wouldn't be a good idea.
Most people know within a couple of minutes whether or not they would be willing to try dating someone. | |
03-03-06, 09:17 AM
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| | | But I will feel awkwald around her and she might two. I have to spend three more years with her around. | |
03-03-06, 10:06 PM
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| | | Are you good at being funny/humorous??
Just introduce yourself, say you don't know anyone in the class, and out of everyone she seemed like the most interesting person to get to know. Start general conversation... if she's playful, tease her about something, and while in the joking moment say "I better stop teasin you.. I don't want your boyfriend to come lookin for me" with a smile.
You only feel ackward because you haven't broke the ice yet. And don't think like that.. don't think "I have three more years around her" because you never know what is gonna happen tomorrow. She could transfer, she could meet a guy who she's gonna date for the next year and a half... it's better to make the effort to get to know her ASAP. | |
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| | | Tone's suggestions will break the ice and is a good way to find out if she's single.
If you want a more sure way to find out the answer, you'll have to ask her directly. | |
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Originally Posted by owen206 But I will feel awkwald around her and she might two. I have to spend three more years with her around. you have the same sort of promblem as me, just talk to her, just try to make friends first thats what im gona do and want to do. | | Loveforum Breaktime | | | | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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