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Old 06-02-06, 10:56 AM
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date tomorrow - i think?
I ran into the guy I like on Friday (see my first post for full story) - the one I had class with last semester, got to be pretty good friends with, and then got some weird "maybe i like you/maybe i'm just a player" vibes from the last time we hung out. I saw him at the beginning of the week too, and we chatted for a half hour or so, during which time I mentioned a TV show I started watching (House ), and he said it sounded interesting. When I saw him on Friday, our interaction was short and kind of awkward, and I kicked myself when I left. To make myself feel better, I gave him a call a little while later and asked if he wanted to hang out and watch House. He said he was busy this weekend but suggested we hang out tomorrow (monday).
so now i can't decide if i should treat it as a "date". my last "date" was watching a movie with this guy a year ago, which then turned into cuddling and my first "real" kiss, so I think I have this preconceived idea of what will happen. but as good as that experience was, I don't really think it's a good way to begin a relationship...
so should I look at this as an opportunity to really kick the flirting up a notch, and see if he does anything, or what?
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Well, I think that you've done a pretty great job as you initiated the steps. And good for him for responding and setting up a firm time to get together.

IT does sound like a date to me. I don't really think there is anything wrong with a kiss and cuddling on the first date! But...if you don't feel comfortable with it....maybe try to sit on different couches or something...

At this point, just plan on having a fun evening getting to know him better. If there are going to be any moves...he is the guy, after all!
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I HATE THAT SHOW.

It's so stupid - the old assh*le always has a smartass comment to say, always acting like everything is just one big punchline - everyone he works with looks like they are about to punch him in his ****in throat cause they are so annoyed by him (don't blame them either!) - yet he ALWWWWWAYS knows exactly what is wrong and exactly what to do.

I HATE THAT SHOW (good luck on your date)
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Yeah its like a date........ so just go with the flow and see what happens....

I have to agree with Tone about "House" though. That guy annoys me. But unfortunately thats how alot of doctors can be....at least at my work they are....kinda arrogant.
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never mind. things don't look good... unless by some small chance he actually didn't see me, he definitely walked right past me twice today without saying anything. I left him a message but he's pretty flaky and probably won't call back.
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Jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Men are JErkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SSSSSSSSSSSSSS SS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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