Originally Posted by ecm
Two friends who have a tasteful dance is one thing. My dates have danced with male friends of theirs or mine in a couple of situations. I can even remember dancing with the wife of the man who owns the company I worked for then. But it was very respectful, tasteful and just dancing.
All this bumping and grinding -- mock sex really -- is another matter.
Tell her you don't like it and not to do it again. If she does it again, dump her.
Exactly.
I have NO problem with a G/F or date dancing with someone else, in fact I can remember a recent event where I encouraged it, but when it gets into the bumping and grinding, that's another story. It's simulated sex in FRONT of you that shows nothing but disrespect. (and I'm no prude, but still...)
Dump her ass quick and find someone who will appreciate you (and you will find someone else)