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09-02-06, 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted by AmyLee i really think that if u love the person u can manage to make it work but this is way too
difficult cause maybe u're behaving correctly but u will never know if ur partner is and
there's always that "what if he's not being faithfull" feeling and that would totally kill
me i can't live like that.
I'm a very physicall person, i need him by my side, not miles away. Whoa, I didn't even think about the infidelity aspect of a L/D R/S. Probably because in a way I'm the luckiest guy in the World. Two marriages and numerous relationships later, (I'm 50 yo) I can look back over the years and honestly say that no one has ever cheated on me (nor I have them) unless they were VERY good at hiding it!
I don't know how I'd handle infidelity. Probably just walk away. Hopefully I'll never have to find out.... | |
09-02-06, 09:33 PM
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| | | Do you have a long-distance girlfriend blackie?
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Originally Posted by vashti Do you have a long-distance girlfriend blackie? Yes and no, mostly no. I have a few ladies that I chat with online/phone that I'm sure I'd be dating if we lived closer.
There was one last year in particular that I was extremely interested in. While we actually 'met' online it was through a mutual real-life friend. I had complimented his website and asked who designed it. (I needed one built) He gave me her email, she did a great job on mine and while working on the project it developed into a mutual attraction. We exchanged pics, talked on the phone every night, she had planned to drive down for Thanksgiving (She's in Kentucky, I'm now in Alabama) Then I receive a email from her saying that, 'sorry, I met someone else here.' Oh well...
I guess at this point I'm trying to keep life as simple as possible. Surely there are local women that are datable, I've just gotta, like I said eariler, get off my lazy butt and get out there and meet them.
I spent most of my life in Los Angeles where I knew tons of people and meeting woman was actually quite easy. School, work, business, neighbors, yes even nightclubs I was a regular at. I used to laugh that the best way to meet women was to take my dog for a long walk and run into friendly people on the sidewalk! Now I'm in a new small, rather town and it's like starting over.
I'll grab some cheese to go with that whine now... 
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09-02-06, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Debunkt Distance is only a physical measure of the space between people. "only" ????
That's the MAIN reason I, personally, would never get involved in a long-distance relationship. I'm a very physical and affectionate person - I NEED to have that physical closeness in a relationship... I need to be able to hug my girl more than once every 6 months.
It's not about trust, or worryin what she would be doing - it's all about not being able to look into her eyes when she's tellin me about her day, rubbin her feet after a long stressful day, or just layin together on the couch watchin our favorite shows.
We've had this talk like 90 times on this forum - I know - cause I can remember sayin this before that I DO BELIEVE they CAN work (like in your case 'bunky) but it's just not my thing. Again - that's just me. | |
09-02-06, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted by blackiesharley Yes and no, mostly no. I have a few ladies that I chat with online/phone that I'm sure I'd be dating if we lived closer.
There was one last year in particular that I was extremely interested in. While we actually 'met' online it was through a mutual real-life friend. I had complimented his website and asked who designed it. (I needed one built) He gave me her email, she did a great job on mine and while working on the project it developed into a mutual attraction. We exchanged pics, talked on the phone every night, she had planned to drive down for Thanksgiving (She's in Kentucky, I'm now in Alabama) Then I receive a email from her saying that, 'sorry, I met someone else here.' Oh well...
I guess at this point I'm trying to keep life as simple as possible. Surely there are local women that are datable, I've just gotta, like I said eariler, get off my lazy butt and get out there and meet them.
I spent most of my life in Los Angeles where I knew tons of people and meeting woman was actually quite easy. School, work, business, neighbors, yes even nightclubs I was a regular at. I used to laugh that the best way to meet women was to take my dog for a long walk and run into friendly people on the sidewalk! Now I'm in a new small, rather town and it's like starting over.
I'll grab some cheese to go with that whine now... You moved from Los Angeles to Alabama?  That would be a gigantic culture shock for me! Where did you live in Los Angeles? (I live in Valencia.)
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Originally Posted by vashti You moved from Los Angeles to Alabama? That would be a gigantic culture shock for me! Where did you live in Los Angeles? (I live in Valencia.) 17 years in Beverly Hills, 5 years in Santa Monica and about 7 years in West Hollywood.
Valencia? Love it. My ex's parents lived there and I miss those In 'n Out burgers on 'Hamburger Hill' right off the 405. (As well as the Saugus race track/swap meet but I've heard that's closed now)
I moved here for the cheap real estate frankly. Great (new) house on an acre ten minutes from one of the greatest beaches in America for less than I was paying in rent in West Hollywood.
Culture shock? You bet, but I still like it. There's only one thing missing. A damn social/romantic life!!!! | |
09-02-06, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by blackiesharley Culture shock? You bet, but I still like it. There's only one thing missing. A damn social/romantic life!!!! What, you left your right in LA?
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Originally Posted by Lloyd95 What, you left your right in LA?
Sorry Lloyd, I'm only on my first coffee. Not sure I understand your post. | |
09-02-06, 11:37 PM
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| | | Ugh; my humor is lost. Think "Rosie"; did you leave her back in Cali? Because Rosie is always romantic to me.
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Originally Posted by Lloyd95 Ugh; my humor is lost. Think "Rosie"; did you leave her back in Cali? Because Rosie is always romantic to me. I'm still lost here Lloyd. 'Rosie?' That's my dogs name.
Explain please...?
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09-02-06, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted by blackiesharley I'm still lost here Lloyd. 'Rosie?' That's my dogs name. That's gross.
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Originally Posted by Lloyd95 That's gross. hahaha
Lloyd I got your joke.
Blackie - Rosie... PALM | |
10-02-06, 12:16 AM
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| | | I with you, blackie. I'm lost, too. Anyway, I used to like Valencia when it was a bit more rural, but now it's populated with too many damn W.A.S.P.y yuppies and women with plastic boobs wearing their daughter's clothing.
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