confused.. boy 1 or boy 2? - Love Forum

makeawish0617 · #1 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 08:32 AM

Ok, so theres these two boys, and I'm totally confused over what to do.

Boy 1:: We'll call him Chris. He goes to my school, I have one class with him every other day, and I see him after every class. However, I usually only see him outside of school on Sundays because of my job and such. "Chris" and I have been friends since our sophmore year (we are now seniors), and we dated once at the beginning of our junior year, but broke up for various reasons. We continued to be BEST friends, and he dated this girl for about 6-8 months. So anyways, we continue to be best friends, until February of this year, where I decided I wanted to be more than friends with him. We started dating and everythings great. Until...

Boy 2:: We'll call him David. He doesn't go to my school, and I don't see him often. I met him the beginning of my junior year, when he was dating this girl from my school. We met up again over the summer (of '05), while he was still dating this girl. Well, we hung out and he told me they broke up, so he ended up kissing me, and then I found out that they were only on a "break" (he thought it meant they broke up) so he ended up cheating on her. So anyways, we dated off and on for two months. Then I ended up breaking up with him because I heard from multiple people he had cheated on me with his ex, but he still denied it. So then, we were still friends, and we talked up until the end of January of this year. All of a sudden, last Thursday, I get a call from him. His father had passed away that morning. We talked all day Thursday (I stayed home from school), and then I talked to him Friday night after work, a little bit Saturday, and now today, were the calling hours, the first time I had seen him in months. It hurt at first, then when I saw him, I got butterflies like the first time we hung out. Then, I gave him a hug, and everything came flooding back to me, all the feelings, all the love, all the happiness, all the tears, all the laughs, all the fights, all the everything..

I don't know what to do, someone please help me, I'm so confused and it's really starting to bring me down, I'm having doubts about everything in my life and it sucks... Any help would be much appriciated.

clynn · #2 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 08:39 AM

Hmmmm. Tough one.

Are you still going out with Boy #1?

Sounds like Boy #2 didn't treat you really great the first time you went out.....so I don't know if you are wise to give him a second chance.

But I understand how you might want to be friends with him right now though, to help him out now that his father has passed away.

makeawish0617 · #3 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 08:44 AM

yeah i'm still dating #1 .. and #2 treated me awesome most of the time, but there were occasionally times where he was a dick, but that's how it is wish all guys..

BlackPetal · #4 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 09:45 AM

Stick with guy 1. Think about this logically. Guy 2 has cheated before, and there is no guarantee that he won't in the future. Besides, guy 1 has been so close with you for so long and that means chances are, he will stick with you for a long time. Value what you already have, because desires can destroy you.

DutchBoY · #5 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 09:19 PM

jesus.....this sounds like a gameshow. If I pick the right one, will I win a kitchen?

dono · #6 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 09:55 PM

Okay, first of all. That font, and color is HORRIBLE!!!

Second, If you are still dating boy number 1, then not only did boy number 2 cheat on his "break" g/f with you, but you cheated on your boyfreind for kissing him.

Third, how old are you?

And fourth, if you love someone, you will committ to them. So you either love boy number one, in which case, you committ to him only, or you don't love boy number one. If that's the case, why would you want to be with him ayway? The next question should be, do you love boy number two? If so, then committ to him.... and so on....

I don't think people think logically anymore.

TAVS · #7 (**permalink**) 21-03-06, 09:55 PM

What the hell is wrong with you? You don't deserve either boy but in response to your question Boy 1. If Boy 1 was smart; he'll drump your butt before school lets out.

XPixiedustX · #8 (**permalink**) 23-03-06, 06:06 PM

Boy 1, I don't even know why your considering boy 2 right now...this is the problem with most girls, you get the perfect guy, yet u gotta go mess it up cuz for some reason the dickhead is more apealing.

xd3vilx · #9 (**permalink**) 23-03-06, 08:01 PM

Well...i feel that you should select the one that you feel better with the most...it should be a lust kind of thing...wadever you do...don't date two of them in a time...it will be a bad decision...you may even end up with nothin in the end...

GrkScorp · #10 (**permalink**) 24-03-06, 11:36 AM

i have a solution to your problem!!!

forget boy 2.. he's just not worth it..

boy 1 however... is not worth it either..

so you can't really pick either..

instead.. you can go for the king of sexy.. boy #3.

i don't know who he is.. but I think you know him very well...

daisy · #11 (**permalink**) 24-03-06, 06:35 PM

I had the same situation and the boy like #2 was my choice.. But then I regreted so much about it. And I broke off with him(like #2) and I lost my previous(#1) as well...So think about your decision better!